My partners 23yr old son has moved back into our home with his GF as they have been living away and they could not sustain their lifestyle.
They have amassed a large amount of debt that needs to be cleared as a result of their lifestyle. We offered them a place to try and get on their feet plus his Mother wouldn’t have them stay.
SS is waiting on checks to do parcel delivery but doesn’t want to work full time as he does ‘extra’ work and it will interfere with that.
My partner is giving them three weeks grace until he says anything but so far DS is up around 10 onwards and GF midday. They then spend the day on laptops as he says ‘ looking at opportunities’
Fortunately I am working all day so not at home but they have been going out every night.
They go out from 5-10.30 pm and don’t come back until after 1-3.30am is the latest this week.
SS is at his mother home until then. Each time they come back the GF waves at the Ring 🤷♀️
The late nights out is starting to really irritate me, especially now the youngest in the house is being woken by them even though they seem to be quiet coming in.
I feel that this being really disrespectful, they are quite happy living and eating here but off until all hours every night.
What are anyone’s thought? Is it me that is in the wrong to be irritated ?
There is also another young adult about to head to uni tomorrow so it’s not like I am used to older children having their own freedom etc.