Wedding plans

[Navigatingthroughlife]

Hi All,

Myself and partner are starting to plan our wedding. We’re looking at getting married abroad and he has two kids from previously relationship. By the time of the wedding kids will be 17&14 (couple of months off 18&15). We’re looking at options and seen a beautiful hotel we want to get married in. Partner wants us and kids to share a big family room but as it’s our wedding/honey wrapped into one I thought it would be best to have our own room. Obviously kids will be at the wedding and holidaying with us but they’ll be a lot of family flying out that would happily have the kids in their room.

what would you guys do in this situation? Just for context I adore the kids and we’ve had holidays where we’ve all stayed in a villa etc but it’s only because it’ll be our wedding that this has crossed my mind.

Thank you!

Well, it was only a couple of posts ago and you thought MIL would be the person for the job (even though they have a dad).

I don't care when you plan your wedding, just surprised to hear so many do plan it so far in advance, right down to the finer details.

What am I reading?! He doesn’t want them to be left out of what exactly?? Your first intimate night as husband and wife?! What the hell. He’s odd and you’re making excuses for him.

My DD has had her own room so nice she was 13 travelling with myself and step dad. Hotels are great at booking next door or across the hall rooms so she was close by.
Her step dad adores her and she him, but they definitely wouldn't want share a room.