Can I have a rant here because I know technically he can do what he likes with his child but God I find it so annoying, it makes me eye roll.
DSS is 13, 14 this year and my husband does absolutely everything for him.
He runs his baths, making sure they are the right temperature ect, he'll make his breakfast, he'll take him to school two mins away, he'll tidy his room for him, never makes him lift a finger to do anything at all in the house and the list goes on.
He's completely babied and I can't stand it.
Tonight DSS sat downstairs on his phone whilst my husband ran his bath for him, staying there until it was not too hot/ not too cold and them called him up like a little child. Let him run his own bath for godsake!
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BahHumbug2 · 12/06/2022 20:08
Dancingwithhyenas · 13/06/2022 13:08
I mean to be fair my husband does this for me, as a loving gesture. I sort of see your point but only if he isn’t equally loving to you!
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FishcakesWithTooMuchCoriander · 12/06/2022 20:17
People actually run baths and check the temperature for teenagers and adult children? Routinely? When they’re perfectly healthy and capable of it?
Jesus wept.
P00rKids · 13/06/2022 13:18
Maybe I thought u were someone else. Maybe you’re not. If not, then u won’t mind me saying that the answer is yes. A resounding absolute (are u stupid) yes. Maybe you’re not the person I think u are. In that case, no worries there
P00rKids · 13/06/2022 13:18
Maybe I thought u were someone else. Maybe you’re not. If not, then u won’t mind me saying that the answer is yes. A resounding absolute (are u stupid) yes. Maybe you’re not the person I think u are. In that case, no worries there
P00rKids · 13/06/2022 13:18
Maybe I thought u were someone else. Maybe you’re not. If not, then u won’t mind me saying that the answer is yes. A resounding absolute (are u stupid) yes. Maybe you’re not the person I think u are. In that case, no worries there
FishcakesWithTooMuchCoriander · 13/06/2022 13:22
I am now totally intrigued as to the context of these messages.
P00rKids · 13/06/2022 13:18
Maybe I thought u were someone else. Maybe you’re not. If not, then u won’t mind me saying that the answer is yes. A resounding absolute (are u stupid) yes. Maybe you’re not the person I think u are. In that case, no worries there
FishcakesWithTooMuchCoriander · 13/06/2022 13:24
I’m hoping the question was ‘do we have any chips in the freezer?’ or similar.
FishcakesWithTooMuchCoriander · 13/06/2022 13:07
@GlitteryGreen 😱
he puts toothpaste on their brushes for them. How infantilising.
LadyCluck · 13/06/2022 11:29
YANBU OP
My other half does this. It’s known as “Operation Red Carpet” in our house when the SC arrive. He falls over himself to do everything for them - even the most basic of things. In short, SC are 16 and 18 and can do very little for themselves. The 18 year old is hopefully off to Uni in September - that will be a HUGE shock for her as she’ll actually have to do things for herself. 😱
Your DH is doing his kid no favours babying him so much.
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BigSandyBalls2015 · 13/06/2022 14:47
Interesting how you say that he has to come to yours as his mum works .... surely at 14 he could be home alone for a while?!
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