Hi I have 3 step children all live with us permanently. We’ve lived together for 5 years. The 13 year old is a nightmare to live with started getting worse about 2 years ago. he constantly disrespects me he point blank tells me and his dad he hates us (no anger,hatred or being upset). He lies all the time try’s to get everyone else in trouble. He hurts the others and thinks it’s hilarious but will always try and blame them. He’s manipulative and sneaky. We’ve been to counselling but their techniques seem to make him think he can get away with everything. I’m struggling and don’t know how to handle him anymore. I’m not a shouty person but I’m starting to loose myself and feel myself wanting to scream. We’ve tried grounding, taking things away, talking the issues through but nothing phases him. Any advice?
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My stepson makes our lives hard.
Strugglingstepparent · 30/05/2022 20:46
Strugglingstepparent · 31/05/2022 01:04
I feel like I’m very close to the edge. It’s awful though because the rest of our family unit is great. I think that’s why I’ve come on here looking for help I wouldn’t normally do this kind of thing but it’s seriously getting to breaking point. I’ve started getting anxiety dreading each day and battle. The whole family is suffering.
Rainbowqueeen · 31/05/2022 01:57
Can I just say it may just be him being a teen. I have a teen who is very similar and her dad and I are still together. It is incredibly tough though, no doubt about that.
GeorgiaGirl52 · 31/05/2022 01:59
Have you considered boarding school? Then he could be rebellious against someone else.
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Strugglingstepparent · 31/05/2022 09:48
Dad works away week days.
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