My mum's birthday is in a few weeks and for it I am taking her away for the bank holiday at the beginning of June with me and my son who is 2, leaving the Wednesday evening and coming back Sunday evening.
I have booked and paid for this and my mum doesn't know anything about it yet. We have a few nice things planned for whilst we are there.
My husbands son is due to be with us that week. This long weekend away was not a problem until recently when my husband has been invited to a friend's stag do which falls over that weekend.
He is now asking if I can take my step son on this long weekend with my mum and our DC. It wouldn't cost extra for accommodation as I have booked an Airbnb but would give me money for him whilst there.
I've said no and he's now annoyed. Saying I'd take him if he were my son, my mum won't even mind, step son loves my mum so why not etc etc..
I'm really peed off. I feel like I can't just do anything with my child and family sometimes without him making it about him or DSS.
I'm sticking to my guns and have said he'll have to figure something else out (his mum is working so can't swap).