My DH DD gran has passed away and her mum has asked my DH to go the funeral and take them. (they were never in a relationship she fell pregnant on third date but they never got together a little bit of FWBs and DH used to pay her rent pay for her shopping and also pay child maintenance)
DD is 9 we got together 5 years ago married 2 years, Ever since I have been on the scene and married DSD mum has always been awful and once accused me of child abuse got police ect involved I was arrested but let off it was absolutely awful experience. It turned out her reason for saying it was she believes that children that were abused go on to be abusers. I never been left alone with DSD and it was soon dropped and she did get a warning for wasting police time with false allegations. ( I had a awful childhood and for my own safety was put into foster care) for this reason I keep my distance and don’t get involved
Back to my point DH has agreed to go the funeral and take his DSD and her mum he has had to ask me if he can take my car as it’s the bigger car. I wanted to say no because I don’t want her in my car but haven’t Because I know it’s childish I feel kinda hurt he’s going but gets he want to be there for his DD.
But don’t feel he has to take her mum. I feel very bad for saying this as she’s lost her mum ect but feel so hurt after everything she has said and done against me. I know he has to keep a relationship for the sake of his DD but I feel it’s actually a cheek of her to ask. I probably should just grow up and let it go but the hurt she caused by her previous actions makes me angry.