Any advice on how I can support dh? We've been together about 5 years. Basically his two teenage kids took a dislike from the start and things have always been hard. Over the years they made a few accusations of things I'd supposedly done that were either hysterical exaggerations or just grossly untrue. They mostly dropped these quite quick but it was upsetting. I think really they're still very upset their parents are not together. It came to a head when they issued him with an ultimatum a few weeks ago that he either got rid of me or they moved back full time with their mother. They don't really have any concrete reasons at this point other than I don't talk to them despite me trying to engage in conversation with them but being shut down with grunts and one word answers. I've had numerous heart to hearts with them when I thought I'd made in roads but they just seem determined not to like me. Obviously he refused to 'get rid' of me. We love each other plus have a young dc together. They've since gone to live with their mother full time. DH calls and texts and has asked them to meet outside for walks etc but they only reply to ask for money. They've accused him of not being interested in them since he married me but in reality I've spent a lot of nights alone while he was dad's taxi even when they were supposed to be at their mothers, loads of extra curricular, help with homework, entertaining their friends etc. All the stuff dads are supposed to do. He is really depressed and I feel awful but helpless to really do anything to help him.