Me and my exp separated about a month ago after a long term relationship of 10 years. 4 children together and he has 1 child with his ex wife.
I just don’t know what to do in order to keep everyone happy when maintaining relationships.
His ex has asked if my (former?) dsc can stay over at mine every other Friday night as my ex works Saturdays so it would mean he leaves early Saturday morning and although the child is 14 and perfectly ok being left alone, it’s a new environment.
I mean, I’m ok with this. I think. And it’s good for the children to still see each other. But is it expecting too much of me to maintain a permanent arrangement? Is it even normal? Eventually I do want to rearrange bedrooms so that my own children aren’t as cramped together, and I don’t want anyone to be offended or hurt by this. Maybe in the Spring time.
What would you do going forward?
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Maintaining contact after split. What do you think?
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tryingtodowhatsbest · 12/12/2019 11:28
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