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DSD - Silent moody treatment- Spoilt Madam

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mrssnodge · 24/03/2014 16:07

MY DSd 14 nearly 15, is so moody and does not speak to me- She stays evey weekend, from fri eve to sun eve, speaks to DP like shit then wraps him aound her finger , is so spoiled- DP constantly buys her things he cant afford- He sometimes works on Saturdays and leaves me with her, she does not move out of her( recently decorated by me) bedroom until he comes in at 2pm and says 'im starving'- he asks could u not have made her something to eat? err -of course if she came and asked me I would!! but Im not doing room service--my own 3 dc have all left home- - didnt do it for them),
In her room, she has sky tv, lap top, i pod, etc, but insists on sitting on top of us all the time- fine if she had a conversation- but she speaks to DP only & not me, eben though its nearly always me running in nd out with food, nibbles etc I never get a thanks-
DP says she is just shy- she wont speak to my DM or Dc if they visit, and goes upstairs then- I feel awful bitching about her but its getting so bad- this is 7 years on and I dont think I can put up with this much longer, when will she stop coming every weekend!????
She also has a friend to stay too everything other weekend, I prefer her bloody mate- shes lovely and chatty,!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:13

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:13

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:13

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:13

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:13

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:13

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:13

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:13

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:13

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:13

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:13

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:13

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:13

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:14

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:14

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:14

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:14

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:14

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:14

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:14

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:14

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:14

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:14

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:14

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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mrssnodge · 25/03/2014 10:14

she cant even make a cup of tea! I recently stood over her and made her/showed her how to do it- with Dp at her side, laughing and saying she doesnt even drink tea, so why should she do it -
Her new bedroom was my sons old room, the biggest in the house- DP bought most of the new things, and she does at least keep this clean- she also takes her washing home.
Never washes up or lefts a finger, apart from the day we swapped rooms for her, I made her help clean before decorating and I think she actually enjoyed it- but since then nothing .
I agree with the pocket money/allowance thing- he gives her too much and that makes her entitled, - I also know she does nothing at home-( but her Dm is a lazy person too! lol!)
DP has just text my to say he has an early finish so is going to pick her up after work experience today- ah bless she cant manage a 10 min walk home either-its a 40 min drive, there and back!
I know im coming across bitter etc, and he is equally to blame, I just hope she discovers boys and mates soon, I know she will drop Dp like a brick when that happens! Not sure if Dp will be relieved or hurt but I wil be a lot happier without her EW!!!!!!

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