He laughs at me with her via text message

[Lorna80]

hi all apologies for the namechange but i dont want this one to follow me. it started on wednesday when dh and i were in the car, he drove to this office he needed to go in and i said id wait in the car. he uses his phone as an mp3 player and had it on at the time so i asked if he'd leave it so i could listen to the music. he said no. i asked why and he couldnt give me a straight answer, just said "because i said not" and then he made up some stupid excuse that hes waiting for a call. this made me think he NEVER leaves his phone unattended where i am. i leave mine all over the place, he doesnt. he even takes his into the bathroom with him. so next opportunity i got i snuck a peak and found a load of text messages between him and dsd more or less laughing at me and taking the piss. on one day id gone out and she text her dad asking where id gone. he text back saying id gone to my mums and she replied "yes!!! thank god shes out haha xxx" and he text back "yay! lol x". another one she text him asking what time she had to be in bed, in text back "whenever, just be quiet so she doesnt notice" and she replied "lol! okies xx"
another one - he text saying "lorna cant come with us on sunday" she replied saying "oh what a shame...........jk!!! cant wait even more now! haha x" he replied "i know! haha x"
she has been a complete pita to me lately, he sticks up for her at every turn and now i know why. hed never admit all this but now i know why hes protective with his phone. has anyone else ever had to deal with anything like thus? is this one too far gone to repair?

It's the same problem over and over again, Blu. Slightly different details every time, but the first memorable thread involved a boxroom.

She posted very recently, and was due to leave on the 4th of this month if I'm not mistaken. I will be very sad if this is the same poster, especially as there are real concerns for the young girl's welfare and possible sexual abuse.

Bitof was that the girl with the hygeine and weight issues as well? I thought that poster had a son of her own? I do remember a recent one about an innapropriate relationship between the father and daughter where she said she was going this month. Lorna regardless either way I really think you need to consider moving on lovely - this is a very difficult and innappropriate situation.

Lorna I agree with BoF, and the other week you posted that you were leaving him.

tried to find the thread and cant - any idea what it was called?

This was the most recent one, but it has been going on for a very long time.

Ah I remember that one now. Not convinced its the same person though, I remember there being a girl on here who was having issues with a protective daughter a while ago and thought it might be her.

i would hate to be in your situation. I would not be able to handle it. It would make me really paranoid and unhappy. I would leave. I know that sounds trite and isnt really advice per se, but blimey the situation sounds awful.

Ask yourself this...do you really want to be with a childish, bullying arse who treats you, and allows his dd to treat you, with such disrespect.

where has OP gone ?

This is exactly what I have recently walked away from, as sad and crap as it has left me feeling after 7 years and despite a 2yr old with DP I could stand no more of his quite horrendous DD. There's a whole other story there, but the gist of it runs through this thread.