The lady in the flat below us bought me my first proper doll.
We were really poor, really really poor, and my mum just couldn't afford to buy me a fancy doll, I had a few of those plasticly fake Barbies you get off market stalls but that was it. You forget how toys weren't as prevalent in shops and easy to buy as they are now, don't you? I suppose mum could have borrowed the money, but rightly she didn't.
Anyway, the lady in the flat below was very elderly and had lost her only daughter of breast cancer when the daughter was very young - early 30s and just married I believe. She had a son in Australia but no grandchildren. She was quiet and kept to herself, but was just so ladylike and pleasant. I think she had come from a wealthy family but had a hard life and was now in a council flat. My mum would do little bits to help her out, shopping for her and the like.
One Christmas Eve, she trotted up our stairs and left a beautiful doll in our hallway, plus a gorgeous cashmere set and chocolate for Mum, with a note to Mum saying she wasn't to return the gifts unless she wanted to offend this lady, as it would mean a lot to her to be able to treat us at Christmas,we had been good neighbours etc.
I was delighted, it was like something out of a Christmas movie. I called the doll Powder Blue, and I loved her. I would have tea parties for her, and I sewed blankets out of old tea towels and made her a bed in a shoebox. I told her stories and took her out for walks,because she was always recovering from chicken pox! She came to university with me, and Polaroids of her featured in a friend's art project.
She is currently living on a shelf in my mum's spare room, along with some of my other old toys, ready for my daughter when she is old enough to sleep over at Granny's. My daughter is a very young toddler who is only starting to become interested in dolls-we were thinking of getting her one for Christmas. She will hug my friends daughter's doll and say "aww"
I hadn't thought of this all in years until now! Dolls are so special.