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IKEA would like to hear your tips for making the weekday school routine as stress-free as possible

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AbbiCMumsnet · 24/07/2019 09:17

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Getting your kids out of the door for the morning school run is not for the faint hearted. It’s a task that hardly ever goes to plan, with the potential for things to go wrong always lurking around the corner. With this in mind, IKEA would love to know hear your advice on how you make the weekday school routine as stress-free as possible, and any hacks you might have to make your life easier.

Here’s what IKEA have to say:
“A key way to keeping morning madness to a minimum is involving everyone in the home. When your home is set up so that your little ones don’t need constant help, everyone’s a winner. Put dinnerware and food in places your children can easily reach so they can set the table while you focus on making breakfast. A light step stool can help in the kitchen and bathroom.
In the bedroom, our STUVA range is designed from the ground up ensuring interiors are all easily reachable by little hands, with most parts being adjustable, meaning the furniture can grow your child. But one of the best places to keep well organised is the hallway. A bench with hidden storage will work wonders, just pop their bags inside and add a coat rack at their height nearby to give them a one stop shop before leaving each morning.”

Have you established an efficient system to get your kids out of the door on time? How do you deal with unexpected obstacles that get in your path when trying to leave? Do you prepare meticulously the night before, or do you wing it in the morning and hope for the best - maybe the latter works best for you!

All who share their tips on avoiding the stress of the weekday school run will be entered into a prize draw where one MNer will win £300 in IKEA vouchers.
Thanks and good luck

MNHQ
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IKEA would like to hear your tips for making the weekday school routine as stress-free as possible
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TrySinging · 24/07/2019 15:25

The correct answer is get as much done as possible in advance. In reality though, I fly by the seat of my pants and just keep remembering that soon it'll be quiet and I can have cake.

Toomanycats99 · 24/07/2019 15:26

I have a kallax unit in my kitchen diner for uniform - means it doesn't get lost in the pile of clean washing to put away as it goes straight there from the drier.

1 box per child - underwear for the school week goes in there as well so everything's handy.

Jaffaquake · 24/07/2019 15:32

Children have their own cubby-hole underneath the family pin board, using ikea storage cube unit to put things we need in the night before, so no need to rush. All important dates and school letters are pinned on the notice board above the cubes, and we screwed on child-height coat pegsto the side of the kallax unit so children can reach their own coats.

Children can make their own breakfast, and have school dinners so no need to prepare food! Phew.

Iambouddica · 24/07/2019 15:41

I make sure i go through book bags as soon as they get in after school/nursery so there are no ( or not so many) nasty surprises in the morning - last minute cat costume anyone?

Using the calendar on my phone to give prompts for any additional requirements such as mufti day or junk modelling donations.

Apart from that lots of the suggestions from upthread. Lots of storage boxes to separate different bit of uniform to help DCs be more independent in the morning (only 5 & 3).- We use cardboard boxes with a hole cut in on IVAR shelving to store hats/gloves/reusable bags etc.

Shoe trays on the bottom of the shelves are easily accessible along with child height coat hooks.

rholo · 24/07/2019 15:46

Hmm. Not sure I've got many tips, we often end up pretty frazzled despite living close to school and having plenty of time. The mornings that seem to go better for us are when we have lots of music on in the background, it seems to help my kids to get along and move from one part of the morning to the next. I have really enjoyed not having to do the school run on our first day of the school holidays.

cornflakes5 · 24/07/2019 15:53

Everything ready the night before, and things packed in the order you'll need them!

foxessocks · 24/07/2019 15:56

My routine is the same every day, the children know exactly what to expect and if we stick to the times they get a little bit of time to play or watch TV before school so that's an incentive!

TuesdaySunshine · 24/07/2019 16:12

Staggered starts, otherwise everyone ends up in the bathroom at the same time. Partner gets up first, wakes kids, gets breakfast going. Then me, kids appear just as I've finished in the bathroom and heading to the kitchen to eat. Kids eat while I'm getting dressed, kids get dressed while I'm getting my bag together. God knows when partner does his thing but he always seems to be washed, fed and dressed by the time we leave, so I don't need to know the details. We're all pretty rubbish in the mornings though, so I'm not sure we'd even notice if the routine went wrong.

Loving all the references to ikea's role in everyone's super-organised mornings.

LastMinutesAndLostEvenings · 24/07/2019 16:30

Packing bags night before for nursery and marking all events on our family google calendar 👍🏻

bluebump · 24/07/2019 16:37

We have packed lunch made the night before for both of us and work clothes and uniform laid out ready to go. I’d never be on time if I had to choose what to wear each day! My DS is just starting secondary school so I’m hoping he doesn’t want a packed lunch any more and wants to buy hot food from the canteen but we’ll see.

We went to IKEA this week actually for some storage for his room to keep his desk tidy.

We’ve had school mornings down to a tee for the last 7 years so it will be a bit of a learning curve with his new school and new timings etc.

Sleepybumble · 24/07/2019 16:37

We lay everything out the night before. Coat and bags packed next to front door. Packed lunch ready in fridge.

ItsWitchingTime · 24/07/2019 16:51

I'm not going to lie our school run is a work in progress now that both boys are in school. Some days we nail it, majority of the time we barely make it.

I'm currently re-doing the hallway as the current set up isn't working for us any more - yes it has taken me an entire school year to come to this conclusion😂.

I'm also in the midst of getting a new routine worked out with both boys for the morning and after school.

Byrdie · 24/07/2019 16:57

I love to be able to say that we pre-pack stuff and have everything organised but we just don't. Three kids and it entails a lot of screaming. There is about a dozen Alexa reminders scattered throughout the morning to try and get me to do what I need to do and out the door. Nothing really works. The threat of me leaving and starting the car usually does the trick and gets kids to follow me to the car eventually.

UnalliterativeGeorge · 24/07/2019 17:55

Routine would be key. It is currently all in the air as the two year old has toilet trained so you can guarantee she'll declare she needs a poo the second we need to leave. Thank goodness for summer! Living close to the school seems to make it worse instead of better!

BristolMum96 · 24/07/2019 18:06

Everything sorted nights before especially lunches and bags packed, clothes out

trinitybleu · 24/07/2019 18:14

We have the Ikea Kallax unit with a box each for hats, gloves, shoes, umbrellas etc. so easy to find what you need when you open the front door and suddenly realise it's raining / PE Day / Sports Day and you need additional kit.

One cubby is for DD's school books - we have (non Ikea!) plastic wallets, one for each subject. Her exercise books and text books get stashed in there and then they get stacked in such a way that you can see each wallet label. She can pack her bag for the next day in under a minute.

Also, as DD grew out of some toys, I replaced the deep, Lego filled boxes in the Trofast unit next to her desk with the single depth drawers. There's one each for general stationery, watercolour and oil paints, printer paper, index cards / post it's etc. ready for her to just grab when she's studying or doing homework.

Another Trofast had the same drawer change treatment and there's one drawer each for skin care, hair stuff, wallets / zip pouches etc so she can find everything easily when she's getting dressed of a morning.

Her blazer still gets dumped on the floor and she still forgets her homework, but I've tried!

turkeyboots · 24/07/2019 18:48

We were fine until the DCs got big, with big school bags and sports bags and instruments and other accessories. I've gone from a kids and adult pegs and a basket, to chaos. Need some sort of new system but have little hall space.

Exploring · 24/07/2019 18:48

Prepping food and bags the night before. Post it note on the door to remember anything unusual and the clock running 5 minutes fast. A place for school bags and yes ours is a kallax with fabric boxes 😂

Ribeebie · 24/07/2019 18:53

Organisation is key. Prep all bags, outfits, lunches the night before. We meal plan, and making sure petrolatum is in the car so no need to do an emergency stop on the way to work/nursery. Making sure breakfast stuff is in and easy to make and eat in the morning.
Keeping my sons room organised is key to making mornings easier - there's a place for everything (loads of clever Ikea storage! Grin)

Ribeebie · 24/07/2019 18:53

Haha petrol - silly autocorrect!

heyday · 24/07/2019 19:26

We have to be out early in the morning for LO to attend breakfast club so I can get to work on time. The only way I could ever cope is to be extremely organised. Even if I am really tired the night before I still insist on making sure clothes are ironed, homework is done and school/work bags are packed and ready for the morning madness.

biffyboom · 24/07/2019 19:26

I try to keep the routine the same as much as possible and am constantly clock watching so we don't fall behind, or it's tantrums and tears all around!
Any known changes to the usual routine are explained the evening before, a reminder before bed, and as soon as we wake up. That seems to work best for us.
It's still a struggle every morning though, I just hope it gets easier as my children get older!

emphasisofmatter · 24/07/2019 19:36
  • uniform out night before hanging in wardrobe door ready for the morning
  • bag packed night before and put with shoes and coat
  • time schedule for finishing breakfast and brushing teeth before leaving

However none of this matters when the toddler decides that time to go out the door means time to go to the toilet. Smile

trilbydoll · 24/07/2019 21:27

Book bag and other items required to go to school are on the hall table, nothing else is allowed on the table! Also forgetting things a few times makes the dc much better at remembering their own stuff Wink

SinkGirl · 24/07/2019 21:38

We have twins, so everything has to be planned like a military operation. They are both autistic, so they both come with a wide range of stuff: nappies, wipes, PECS folders, special toys, spare clothes, sensory toys etc.

We have a Kallax unit in the dining room so I can keep everything sorted (shoes in one box, hats and suncream in a drawer, coats and jumpers in another, etc). Then we have a couple of Raskog trolleys with everything we need sorted on to the shelves. Clothes and lunch bags are prepped the night before so it’s all smooth sailing in the mornings (well that’s the idea... I’m sure one day it will happen!)