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Would you and your partner take time off work if companies offered 6 months paid parental leave for all?

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JustineBMumsnet · 26/11/2018 17:11

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Having a new baby is an exciting time regardless of whether you’re a mum or a dad, and spending time with them in those first few months is a precious experience. A year ago Aviva introduced its equal paid parental leave policy, where all employees can take up to 12 months off, with no need for mums to share their maternity allowance. With this in mind, Aviva would like to hear your thoughts on giving all parents the same amount of time off.

Here’s what Caroline Prendergast, Interim Chief People Officer at Aviva has to say: “We decided to make all parents at Aviva eligible for the same amount of paid and unpaid time off, regardless of gender, sexual orientation or how they became a parent. We thought that dads would want to spend time with their new arrivals, just as mums do. One year on, our experience shows that with financial barriers removed, they do just that.”

You can find out more about Aviva as an employer here.

If all companies offered 6 months paid parental leave, do you think your spouse or partner would be prepared take the time off work to share childcare duties? If not, why not?

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Would you and your partner take time off work if companies offered 6 months paid parental leave for all?
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yorkie18 · 16/12/2018 20:53

I think it's a great idea and something we would definitely use should we need it and it's available to us. Although, we probably wouldn't use it for the full 6 months. I think he would get bored being at home for 6 months with us both, and (if paid in the same way as standard maternity) it would put an unnecessary financial strain.

angiehoggett · 16/12/2018 21:33

it sounds great and I'm all for parent spending as much time with their children and possible but it all depends on earnings and cost of living

cluckyhen · 16/12/2018 21:38

I think that would have driven me mad and definitely wouldn't have been good for his career (Forces).

melmoo · 16/12/2018 22:20

If this is 6 months on full pay then I'm sure both of us would have taken all of it. However if it's 6 months SMP we'd have taken a little as we can and I'd have taken nearly all of it as I brest fead.

dobbiesloan · 16/12/2018 23:01

yes

PhilTB54 · 16/12/2018 23:27

Seems like a good idea.

snare · 17/12/2018 06:34

I think it is a great idea and depends on couples situations

grannybiker · 17/12/2018 08:51

Actually, I quite enjoyed that time when OH went back to work after waiting on us hand, foot and finger. When there was just me and baby, we'd snuggle into bed demand feeding, watching daytime TV and generally getting plenty of rest ready for recuperation.

Jade5093 · 17/12/2018 11:20

Absolutely!

liamell · 17/12/2018 13:46

My partner definitely wouldn't. He is a workaholic and having even one day off drives him mad.
I however think its a wonderful idea :)

Mariobug25 · 17/12/2018 13:48

Yes, absolutely! I think its a real shame dads only get 2 weeks off. I had my baby girl nearly 7 weeks ago, and my partner started his paternity leave when I went into hospital to be induced. I didn't give birth until 3 days later, and we were kept in for a further 2 days. So his first week of paternity leave was gone, before we even got home! I think my partner would love it if he could have the opportunity to take more time off to help me with our daughter.

eandoauntie · 17/12/2018 14:01

I think its a brilliant thing that Dads are now given this opportunity. I am currently on maternity leave myself however I'm going to be a single parent.

pepicola3 · 17/12/2018 14:15

It's a nice idea, but it would very much depend on the level of pay. If it's in line with current maternity/paternity pay, then this wouldn't be sufficient over such a long period.

Twiglet1983 · 17/12/2018 14:18

I think its good in theory, but I'm not sure how many men would do it. Plus what if the baby is breastfed & won't take a bottle like mine was?

ShesABelter · 17/12/2018 14:21

No because I'm the one that breastfed, I'm the one whose body is recovering from pregnancy and birth. My husband earns more than me and gets bored at home and prefers to be at work being mentally and physically challenged in that way.

molly57 · 17/12/2018 15:16

YES

user1496053440 · 17/12/2018 15:32

Yes absolutely, that would be amazing!

time4t · 17/12/2018 16:54

Great idea to have the choice of taking parental leave. Would have been useful for us.

tishist · 17/12/2018 17:03

It's a n interesting and progressive idea ... we would certainly take advantage if we were able to financially.

cpconnolly · 17/12/2018 17:36

i extended my maternity leave for both my kids to 1 year - my seocnd who has additinal need also benefited from daddy takimg an extra 2 montsh off once i returned to work

any additional time with the kids is sacred i think for theior own good - but in todays sociatey is down to money - manyy people would struggle with such an extended elave

jennie1984j · 17/12/2018 19:46

I think its a great idea but both being self employed it doesnt apply to us!

Jocelynne123 · 17/12/2018 19:48

In theory this would be what wonderful but financially it would create problems for us. Plus with breast feeding I would need to be home xx

emilygal · 17/12/2018 20:39

I think it’s a great idea and would balance the scales in terms of gender expectations and responsibilities more

Blondie1982 · 17/12/2018 21:05

It's a great idea but dependent on each couples circumstances

FrenchieMum2Be · 17/12/2018 21:42

Hmmm, I had barely bonded with baby after 6 months... so selfishly I wouldn't share the parental leave.