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AnnMumsnet · 07/01/2016 14:26

Research by Nurofen for Children shows that, on average, it takes a first time mum an average of six months to feel confident as a parent(i). With that in mind, they'd like to know what words of wisdom you'd pass down to a first time mum to boost their confidence.

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Maybe you'd share something your own parents told you that helped when you were embarking on parenthood. Or something you wish you'd been told when you were a new parent. You might have a nugget of advice that you think would really make a difference, and we're eager to hear it.

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Share your advice for first time parents to help build their confidence with Nurofen for Children - £300 voucher prize draw! NOW CLOSED
OP posts:
informer365 · 16/01/2016 18:35

Tomorrow will be a better day!

Ploy · 16/01/2016 18:53

Comparison is the enemy of joy.

It's much easier to relax, enjoy and make mummy friends if you have not got a judgemental internal dialogue going on.

shivbrown · 16/01/2016 19:25

Dont always worry if other babies are doing things sooner than yours, Your baby will do things in their own time, Also never be to hard on yourself being a mummy is the hardest job in the world and is very exhausting but one of the best things in the world too.

Follow your heart and do what you think is best :) x

feejee · 16/01/2016 19:52

Remember that most of the people, e.g. parents, in-laws had children quite a while ago and dont really remember things too well. So take their advice/tales of what they did with a pinch of salt.

Collystar · 16/01/2016 19:59

Love makes it all ok :)

gersa2 · 16/01/2016 20:18

I really wish I'd discovered swaddling sooner. My baby loved it and it helped him sleep for longer and he woke up refreshed and I got a chance to get more sleep in too.

krnries · 16/01/2016 20:29

You know your own baby best - trust yourself, and don't let other mums control you!

jayz268 · 16/01/2016 20:50

Trust your intuition. If it is telling you to seek advice, then do so and continue until you feel your child has the the help or treatment they need.

ozbird1 · 16/01/2016 20:59

Research if you have any questions, but also listen to your mum and in laws, they have experienced so much they may be able to tell you how not to do something as their experience shows.

Don't be afraid of getting it wrong as long as its not dangerous, you can always learn from mistakes.

Practice makes perfect :o)

Jade5093 · 16/01/2016 21:08

Mother's instinct is better than anything! There isn't a manual on being a parent you learn as you go along but don't be afraid to ask for help so you don't burn out. If help is offered then take it!!

GeoffreysGoat · 16/01/2016 21:18

Read your baby, not the book someone is trying to sell you.

MamaRiches · 16/01/2016 21:38

Trust your instincts and it's ok to ask for help, no one will judge you if your finding it a bit hard but it's important not to bottle it up :)

selloveday · 16/01/2016 21:45

Trust your instincts and don’t try to be perfect. Never be afraid to ask for help or advice and cherish every minute as they grow up fast!

samcornfield · 16/01/2016 22:20

Follow your instincts - they are usually right

Dessallara · 16/01/2016 22:28

Relax and count to ten when you feel like you losing your mind. That little one loves you more than anything :)

marymod · 17/01/2016 06:32

I think the best advice was to listen to everyone and then to make up my own mind what to do based on my own instincts.

Dovebird10 · 17/01/2016 06:50

The two greatest gifts you can give your children are loving them unconditionally and listening to them properly. Not listening to children - really listening - is one of the greatest failures of previous generations of parents.

For day-to-day decisions, observe other parents and their children and adopt the best practises that you see and hear.

mistywillow17 · 17/01/2016 08:02

Listen to the advice that is out there, but trust your own instincts. Every baby is different, and what works for one won't for another - it doesn't mean you are doing anything wrong.

mumtowoo1 · 17/01/2016 08:19

Trust your own instinct and do not compare your child to other children of the small age. Also make the most of each stage as they grow so fast.

cwalliss82 · 17/01/2016 08:25

Don't panic. Trust Nurofen and go with the instructions on the packet. They work and things will get better.

greig23 · 17/01/2016 11:44

Do what you feels right and dont Afriad to ask your doctors and nurses for advice and friends too

sofieellis · 17/01/2016 14:15

I'd say trust your instincts and don't let yourself feel pressured to do things to a set timescale. I was pressured into rushing my prem babies on solids way before they were ready. I knew they weren't ready, but everyone including my health visitor said they had to start. It became incredibly stressful for babies and me - I wish I'd had the confidence to say no, they're not ready yet.

Who cares if other babies are on solids/crawling/walking/talking etc. Your baby will do these things when he/she is ready and not a moment before. Learn to relax and enjoy your baby, instead of being stressed.

daviegb · 17/01/2016 14:38

Follow your gut instinct - it's usually correct.

smudgerok · 17/01/2016 14:50

i have 18 monyh twin boys trust yourself but dont be afraid to get help nhs direct is always there they are really good

skyeskyeskye · 17/01/2016 16:18

I found friends with older children were the best people to get advice from because they had usually seen it/heard it/done it before. When DD had a large red mark near her genitals I freaked out, but a friend had a look and instantly said it was chicken pox and gave me some calomine lotion. Sure enough within days DD was covered.

I never had a routine with DD, she slept when she was tired, she slept wherever she was, so it didn't stop me going out or doing anything.

Always keep a stock of luquid ibuprofen and paracetamol in the house, so that if your baby has a temperature, you can give medicine quickly. (we live 20 miles from the nearest 24 hour supermarket).