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When did you realise your teenager was becoming an adult? Tell National Citizen Service and you could win a £300 Love2Shop voucher NOW CLOSED

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AngelieMumsnet · 09/10/2015 09:55

NCS would like to hear from Mumsnetters about the moment you realised that your teenager was becoming an adult.

Natasha Kizzie from NCS Trust says: "From their first driving lesson to their first holiday without you, these pivotal moments in a young person’s life can be our proudest yet, whilst also being a stark reminder of just how quickly they grow up! That’s why programmes like NCS can be such defining moments in their transition to adulthood.
The programme helps young people to make positive life choices by giving them responsibility for their own decisions in a safe environment away from their home setting and with people their own age. By trying new challenges and taking control of their own development, young people return from the programme noticeably more mature, confident in their abilities and ready to take on their future."

When did you first realise that your teenager was well on their way to becoming an adult? Perhaps it was when they finished secondary school or maybe when they got their first job? Perhaps they came up with a wise take on a tricky situation that showed you that you really didn't need to worry about them so much after all.

Whatever the defining moment was for you and your teenager, NCS would love to hear about it.

Everyone who adds a comment on this thread will be entered into a prize draw where one MNer will win a £300 Love2Shop voucher.

Please note your comments may be included on NCS's pages on MN, their social media channels, and possibly elsewhere, so please only post if you're comfortable with this.

Thanks & good luck,
MNHQ

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fatbottomgirl67 · 19/10/2015 20:35

I guess what I mean is that they don't need you like they used to. Suddenly can't help with homework and certainly can't talk about particle physics to tutors. I suppose it will just keep heading that way until they leave home.

10milewalk · 19/10/2015 20:39

When my son stood next to me the other day and I suddenly realised that he had grown and was now taller than me.

Sockattack · 19/10/2015 22:28

When my stepson started colluding with me to persuade his dad to agree to something.

Postchildrenpregranny · 21/10/2015 22:45

When I returned, dreadfully upset ,from a visit to my dying mother and Dd1, then 14 ,rocked me in her arms to comfort me .

Blessingsgalore5 · 22/10/2015 08:54

When my daughter said I'll use my student card to save you money... The fact that she has started to realise the value of money.

Then there are the little things... The first time they rush out the door to go out and shout bye rather than giving you a hug and saying goodbye....

The first time they go out and don't text you within so many minutes because they are much more confident and having too much fun :-)

The first time they drive after passing their test to an event or to visit friends...

Then the adhoc I won't be home tonight in staying at....

And all of them happen so much quicker than you ever thought possible xxx

popperdoodles · 22/10/2015 13:50

Shopping for them in the mens section for sure. discussing 'life issues' which really matter such as careers and university. Working out when you will stop getting child benefit for them too!
More than those things though it's an attitude shift, watching them make sensible responsible choices....most of the time!

voyager50 · 23/10/2015 12:56

I don't have teenagers but when my friend's 15 year old daughter started talking about boys in the way that her mum and I did when we were her age it made me feel very old when I realised my best friend now has an almost adult child!

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