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AngelieMumsnet · 09/12/2014 16:08

Have you ever had a Christmas catastrophe? Have you burnt the brussels and gift-wrapped the Christmas cake? Or are you in fact a Festive Fairy Godmother, brimming with hints and tips and always on hand to help at this time of year? Please share your worst and best Christmas related moments and festive tips - you could win a Lidl voucher.

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Chance to win one of three £100 Lidl vouchers by sharing your Christmas catastrophes and/or tips for a stress-free day...NOW CLOSED
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prettybird · 10/12/2014 08:48

No disasters that I can recall Wink

My tip is to remember that it's just another meal. If you can cook a roast meal at other times, then don't over-worry about the Christmas meal.

Like others have said, prepare as much as possible in advance. Potatoes can be parboiled (and even frozen) and then put in 45 minutes before the end of the roast cooking (longer if from frozen).

Do something simple like a nice soup for a starter - again, something that can be prepared in advance (we do a hot smooth borsch, which looks nice and festive with some sour cream and chives).

Christmas pudding just needs to be put on a steamed - so all you need to worry about is the main course.

If you don't like brandy butter like me then a mix of whipped cream and good quality vanilla custard beaten together is yummy. Smile

worldgonecrazy · 10/12/2014 08:50

Mum used to work as a nurse and would sometimes end up on shift Christmas morning.

One year, I felt very big and grown up as I had to cook Christmas dinner. I searched the turkey very thoroughly for the giblets and couldn't find them anywhere, so presumed that the butcher had removed them.

When we cut into the roasted turkey there was an odd plastic smell and some very yucky plastic/giblets mixed up in a lovely inedible mess. We just cut around it.

And then there was the year that the turkey was resting and we forgot to shut the cat out of the kitchen . . . .

My top tip, as an adult, is make some homemade Baileys: heat one litre of full-fat UHT to blood heat, stir in a cup of strong black coffee and a tin of condensed milk. Stir in a quarter bottle of whisky. Chill. Add more whisky if necessary. This drink will make any Christmas disaster seem much better.

noideawhattoget · 10/12/2014 09:20

i think our worst catastrophe was in 2010 when we had a foot of snow 4 days before christmas. we had 12 for christmas dinner and no way of getting to the supermarket to do the food shop. so i became an arctic adventurer with my then 15 year old adopted daughter. armed with the kids sled, welly boots and a flask of coffee we set of to walk the half hour (normal speed) distance to sainsburys, collected the turkey and non perishables, and pulled them home on the kids sled. went back the next day for other stuff, and finally the fresh fruit and veg the day after. it was much fun, and luckily the crisis was averted, but it was everybody to panic stations for a while. we had a wonderful christmas, and waking up to a little more snow on christmas day was wonderful. my tip is, always make sure you have a sled in the garage in case of christmas dinner emergencies Grin

MaryWestmacott · 10/12/2014 09:23

The year the oven stopped working was a bit rubbish. Worked round that.

Tip - it's just a roast dinner with a slightly different meat and a couple of extra sides (which you can buy ready done!), don't get yourself in a flap and don't watch/read any Delia/Nigella etc and convince yourself you need to make everything from scratch on the day!

Also, hide the lebkucken from yourself, I've worked my way through 2 bags so far.

SagaNorensSnowflakeTrousers · 10/12/2014 10:27

There's the year my DH drank the fat. He thought it was a fancy advocaat drink. It wasn't.

moomoo1967 · 10/12/2014 10:40

I have learnt to always test anything electrical after the Wii I bought for DD one Xmas didn't work when she opened it Sad
I always plan the grocery shopping and cooking weeks before so that the day is less stressful.
One year the week before Xmas my oven stopped working, I cooked Xmas dinner for 3 using my slow cooker for the pheasant and a mini oven to roast the potatoes and parsnips. Different but still tasted fab Grin

cleanmachine · 10/12/2014 10:43

Prepare in advance. Oh, and have your Xmas dinner on Xmas eve.

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QuinnTwinny · 10/12/2014 11:07

Worst disaster was the first year my sister's partner came for Christmas. It would have been helpful if they'd told us beforehand he has allergies and intolerances to practically everything under the sun!

Best tip. Relax! No one cares if dinners served a bit later than planned, they do care if you get yourself in a tizzy over, what should be, a fun, happy meal. Christmas is once a year. Enjoy it!

chocorabbit · 10/12/2014 11:07

The worst that has ever happened was the christmas tree lights were not working because one was broken and they were connected in a series thus stopping the rest ones from working! Thankfully my father sorted them as he is an electrician :)

Many times we didn't have enough christmas tree balls so we had to buy but all shops were near us. So a tip, stock up on all of them and keep spares!

Tip: try a pinata and have the children get all the sweets/toys out in a fun way we haven't tried it yet and probably everybody else will have

fragglemaz · 10/12/2014 11:09

Got stuck in the snow on the A21 for 2 hours with newborn on journey home from inlaws at Christmas. My tip would be not to build Christmas up into a major pressure - if Christmas dinner happens on boxing day, or you have your family get together the week before, does it really matter? It's just one day out of a whole year to show your family you appreciate them and cook lovely food together.

pootlebug · 10/12/2014 11:21

the year I sent dh to do the food shop. he came back with a turkey crown instead of a turkey, put it away so I didn't realise til Christmas morning. what amazed me was his bemusement:
me: where's the turkey?
him: bottom of the fridge
me: no it's not I just looked
him: There!
me: wtf that's not a turkey!
him: of course it's a turkey
me: where the he'll are its legs?
him: what do you mean?
me: it's legs! the tasty bit! it hasn't got any. and what the heck am I going to make gravy with?
him: I didn't realise it wasn't a proper turkey

I had to send him to the 24 hour garage with a m&s food attached to buy gravy. I may have sulked quite a bit about how crap the boxing day turkey pie would be without brown meat, jellyish juices etc

top tip: I've not let him do the Christmas food shop since. and make a suet crust turkey pie on boxing day - really easy and delicious (so long as you have a proper turkey to make it from)

marymouse · 10/12/2014 11:24

worst christmas- I'd been working christmas day so bought a small turkey saddle for christmas dinner (luckily just me and dh) unfortunately the oven was crap and we were still waiting for it be cooked through at 10pm on christmas day

best christmas ever- last year, it was the first time we hosted (for 13) all settled in our new lovely home. It was just so relaxed and fun, there's a pub a few houses down and everyone was there for a couple if hrs and I could just pop in and out of home to check on the lunch. Doing it again this year!

honeysucklejasmine · 10/12/2014 11:37

I once cooked a Christmas dinner for 25. With a single oven and four how rings. How naive i was! I only had two baking trays, three saucepans... I even had to buy some extra plates! I spent the whole morning peeling vegetables and attempting to rotate my oven to cook two huge turkeys, pigs in blankets, potatoes and parsnips, as well as stuffing and a quorm fillet for a veggie guest. (When she asked if the roasties were veggie - no they weren't - i almost cried! It didn't even occur to me!)

I spent the whole day stressed beyond belief. And fitting everyone in my house was a whole other challenge!

The next year my motto was "pre cook". Veggies were par boiled, turkey was pre cooked and stripped down, there were bags upon bags of chopped veg filling up the fridge. Very awkward to fit in but a much more relaxed day all round!

Sarahb8990 · 10/12/2014 11:52

One year the whole family was going round to my parents for Christmas dinner (6adults and 8children). Before going round there we all met up at our local pub. When we got back to their house we found out that they had locked themselves out! My cousin then had to climb two gates, and a conservatory to climb in the open bathroom window to let us in. All this happened while it was thrashing it down (glad we could go and sit the car lol)
Tip. Make sure you always have your keys on you if you go out!

duchesse · 10/12/2014 12:00

In 2010, exceptionally, we were all able to gather together for Christmas at my mother's house. There are 5 of us, and at the time there were also 13 grandchildren (now 14). Arsehole BIL decided to overrule the standard present opening method for the children (open a present every hour, which means we can keep track of who got what and enables them to enjoy each present before moving onto the next. Result was all 13 kids tore open their presents in a frenzy, they all got mixed up together, there were fights, and BIL offered to make breakfast for the children but only did it for his own.

My mother was utterly overwhelmed by the prospect of cooking lunch for 20, so I stepped in, walking my then 1 year old for half an hour during the day while the turkey was in the oven. It was that freezing winter. The slick ice patches had melted a little and it was a lovely cold, crisp day. Turned out to be the last walk for some months.

I went back to the house, continued to cook the lunch for 20 on my mother's extremely unreliable gas cooker while arsehole BIL got more and more wound up by the lateness of lunch, whilst not actually doing anything of any practical use whatsoever.

I left the house, exhausted, at 10 pm, having cooked lunch single handedly for 20, helped to clear up and had some Xmas games. DD3 who was 15 mo was asleep, and I wrestled her into her thick snowsuit as it was freezing again (this is relevant, bear with me). Left the house carrying DD3 over my shoulder to walk the 300 m down to my sister's house. It was about -7C by then and all the snow that had been melting in the day was freezing solid again. I pondered briefly whether to take the pushchair for DD but decided that it was only 300 m and she'd only get cold and wake up. I pondered briefly whether to take a torch but decided that since i was carrying DD that wasn't such a good idea.

Walked 25 m down my mother's slanting driveway, accidentally stepped on a sloping patch of ice, slipped and fell heavily on my bottom with my foot folded underneath me in a desperate attempt not to drop DD. Felt the ankle break in three places as I collapsed on it. DD was lowered slightly heavily onto the ground, her head protected by her thick down snowsuit hood (yeay for Gap snowsuits!). I tried to stand up, discovered I couldn't. My only solution was to call the house from my mobile. My brother and sister came out and carried us both back in the house. My mother assured my I'd only sprained the ankle as that's what she'd done once. Took some paracetamol and was driven back the house we were staying in.

Went to A&E the next day on way to father's for lunch, who confirmed that yes the ankle was indeed broken in 3 places. Had corrective surgery 10 days later and spent 6 weeks in plaster. Thought I would go mad at times.

Best Christmas ever. Hmm

duchesse · 10/12/2014 12:05

Superceded only by the one where as a 19 yo I met my father in Paris at the station where we were to take the train to my family home, only for him to accidentally lead us to the wrong TGV, get out in a hurry leaving all the Xmas goodies on the wrong train including the Leonidas chocolates, completely lose his temper and kick a station admin employee's computer off his desk, get arrested and, when released by the transport police 3 hours later, decide not to come home for Christmas after all. That was a great Christmas Eve. Hmm

mumsbe · 10/12/2014 12:06

I gave birth with my first child 22nd December and had everyone round for christmas cooked Christmas lunch and then visited the rest of the family boxing day! Don't ask how I think the gas and air must have still been working!

duchesse · 10/12/2014 12:07

My advice for a stress-free Christmas would be therefore not to have arseholes or violent people in your family and accept all help offered. Also reduce your expectations for the perfectness of your Christmas- it could be so very much worse! Our best christmases ever have been the ones where we've done what WE wanted as a nuclear family, rather than zip around trying to meet other's expectations and demands.

IAmAPaleontologist · 10/12/2014 12:50

The one when my dad got knocked over and ended up with a skull fracture in hospital was a bit of a catastrophe. We had a tradition of going for a walk on Christmas day. We didn't do that again for a while Grin.

My tip would be to take presents out of boxes, put them together and then wrap (unless lego obviously). Nothing worse than an impatient child waiting while you try to hack those horrible plastic ties off to get stuff out of the box then put together all the bloody annoying fiddly bits of playmobil etc so that they can play.

BadlyWrittenPoem · 10/12/2014 12:54

Cook the turkey the day before so you only have to reheat what you need on the day and therefore have less stressful cooking.

StillNoFuckingEyeDeer · 10/12/2014 13:01

My festive tip is relax & don't put too much pressure on yourself to have a 'perfect' Christmas. Remember you get another one in 12 months time.

Substandard · 10/12/2014 13:11

Tip: It's all over in 24 hours.

Other tip: Have as much fun as you can in that 24 hours.

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leabee79 · 10/12/2014 13:26

My mum once put the Xmas puds in the microwave too high, when she took them out they exploded redecorating the kitchen. ?? Shes certainly no Nigella.