Hi Direct Line,
This is a picture of our three boys. And this is a picture of what should be their bedroom.
We've inherited this "house" after my beloved MIL died of breast cancer last year. She was ill for awhile, even when she bought the property, so it's been many years that any love and repair has happened here. The property is actually two flats that we want to turn back into one home. This potential bedroom is the upstairs lounge.
There are tobacco-stained blinds. The lining paper on the walls is coming away at the seams. The mankiest carpet you could dream of is on the floor. The boys' toys and things are all in storage, and they are sleeping in a small, spare room downstairs until we can sort this room out.
Now let me tell you about our boys.
They are your average, standard curious, adventurous, boisterous kids. They love superheroes, catching bugs, and learning new things.
Last year, our oldest had a near-drowning accident while on holiday with other family. I couldn't get to him as it was abroad, and it was agony knowing he was laying in that hospital bed hundreds of miles away and and I couldn't comfort him. It was the worst thing I've ever been through as a parent. Then, our youngest ended up in hospital with suspected meningitis. It wasn't, thank god, but it was a horrible virus in which he spent 3 weeks as an in-patient, poorly in his big hospital bed right around Christmas.
I've given you the background story because I want to explain why I so desperately want to give these boys the best, coolest, most amazing bedroom they deserve after all the change/disaster/stress they've recently been through.
I want to make it "Discovery Towers," painted in greens and yellows. I want them to have beds with canopies over, and their own torches bedside, so they are "camping" every night. I want to give them a soothing alarm clock with jungle sounds. I want to get the carpet up to reveal the original oak wooden floors underneath, and then lay down massive, over-sized beanbag chairs for them to plop themselves down in. I want a telescope at the window so they can look at the stars, or perhaps pretend they're in a pirate ship and can shout "Land Ahoy!" I want to give them a Discovery Lab set up in the corner, so DS2 can develop his inner mad scientist, with books on bugs and rocks and archaeology tools. I want to give them a quiet "den" in the corner, with soft floor pillows, books, reading lights and throw blankets, so if they need to escape reality and bad dreams, they can.
I want to give them a Bedroom Plus. It would mean the world to them, (and to me, as their mum!)