What plans you have to get finances in order - or is it something you manage well, try to avoid thinking about or leave 'til the new year to sort?
I do like to avoid thinking about it, Id rather not do it and before I had kids I did the basics but didnt celebrate. Now we plan months in advance, set the kids a budget and save.
Do you wait for sales or discounts when buying gifts - does this help you?
Yes if there are specific gifts that are wanted. Bit harder if they dont know until the last minute
Do you set budgets for gifts, food, drink etc - if so, why? If not, why not?
We have to budget - its just not practical to blow all our money on Christmas and starve or freeze in January - plus any big blow out makes you think everyone will expect it next year, or they will feel obliged to up their game or present values because you put a lot in - spending loads has a wider effect.
Has this changed since the recession started?
It has in the sense that we have to do it more - but the premise was there anyway
Do you shop online or do you prefer to buy gifts in person? Do you feel safe shopping online?
I use reputable sites and look for security logos or use paypal. We were stung one year by an ebay seller with really good feedback and who did not sell the goods - we had to wait for January for the money to be returned, and had to use savings to buy presents to be replaced with the refund. I buy in shops to support small independent businesses or if the prices are lower instore - but I prefer the cheaper options online and the convenience of it all arriving and not having to go into the christmas crowds
What money saving tips can you pass on to others at this festive time - for example - do you make your own gifts? Do you buy fewer gifts?
Charity shops - sometimes have brand new books, DVDs, bottles of perfume, etc. Dont rule them out because you think a family member wont like it because its from a charity shop - if they dont like that part, dont tell them!
Ebay and Amazon - compare prices
Send a letter or call your friends asking for a list of necessary gifts, things they need no matter how unexciting - makes Christmas useful and practical, limits spending and stops friends feeling obliged to buy expensive things that you may not want. This may also encourage friends and relatives to do the same so you can get useful and necessary stuff too - how many boxes of chocolates do you take to work because there are too many at home, for example? How many gifts do you recycle to others? etc.
How much will you and your family spend on Christmas this year? Have you been saving for Christmas or buying things over the last few months or year?
Not bought anything yet as the kids have not decided
Kids - £150 each = £600
Step daughter - attempt to give £100 but may struggle
Parents - £50
Grandad - £30 (whisky)
Brother - £50
Friends (collective) No more than £100
Food = £100
Total = £1030 min
My partner and I have decided not to give gifts to each other this year but to save any money we may have spent on a holiday. I imagine he will still get me a book and Ill get him a bottle of brandy and chocolate. Theres not much we want from each other or need.