Nikos linked to a great article by Greenspan in this thread of 21st April
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/special_needs/742398-Interesting-article-re-differentiating-asd-from-other-diso rders
Quite a few of us responded to the unusually positive and optimistic approach and to the idea of focussing on your child's unique profile, including his/her strengths as well as weaknesses. I think this positive approach has the potential to "reach" the "sceptical dads" as well (DH just called me with a very enthusiastic response).
I'm ordering Greenspan's book "The Child with Special Needs: Encouraging Intellectual and Emotional Growth" which seems to expand the ideas set out in the article.
Would anyone care to join me and have a more focussed discussion on the book together in, say, a few weeks? (allowing a bit of time for anyone ordering from the library)?