AIBU to wish that people would realise that there is more than one child who needs help one here

[2shoesdrippingwithblood]

sorry but I am getting really pissed of.
there seems to be a couple of do gooders who seem to think that there is only one child on the sn topic.

we had a brke pc and the man who came oout was dick head and he was

quite nice actually lol.

dh's mate w anker is ok too.

evil parents!

no peachy you are right. I only posted about it on one of the threads as did SGK.
no idea why you think I am asking you to split yourself in half(confused emotion)

was that their real names

it was 2shoes LOL

the splitting in half- i am doing a sponsored diet for ri8ven's dd. I'd do it for yours but cant do both lol.

maybe take a leg each???? or my arse- that's big enough for looooads.....

peachy I will be hitting the big charitys. that is what they are there for.

i'm going to write to the beckhams!!! lol

well if anyone needs help with lewtters etc have done a few for the boys and got it in the past (too many years in the sector)

me to sparly, or should I get my bruv to he could mention his life long obsession with football

I figured that as Victoria lived near here as a child, and they have a house nearby, that they might help a local child.. Atm, my brain is not in right frame of mind to start writing letters, have just done Ds1's secondary school application and had to get loads of supporting letters etc for our case that only one school can provide him with the help he needs, as he doesn't have a Statement.

Riven, why dont you qualify for income support? that seems odd, are you sure you are defr getting everything correct? i dont want to seem patronising, but trying to figure this out.

our brekdown is

dh dla (high rate for both)
me CA
DH incapcity benefit
Income support
child benefit
CTC

lots of dribs and drabs but adds up.

I do know why riven doesn't get Income support- its a fucking pisstake but I won't go into details, only to say they've been immensely badly treated in that way by the benefits people.

oh no, thats not good as you need IS as its seen as a gateway benefit. it opens up other things if you get it.

i thought you had 4 dc's as well riven. 2 dd's and 3 ds's.

now that makes 5 dc's ! lol.

my typing skills leave a lot to be desired

have an imaginary child. she is perfectly well behaved and everyone loves her 100% of the time [misdee removed dd3 from climbing the window sills and stops dd3 flashing her bum at the new neighbours]

I think fundraising for individuals could end up with the christmas box type problems. Although that doesn't mean it shouldn't be done.

For anyone needing a trike etc do try your local rotary. They are really keen to find children to spend money on. Wheelchairs that would increase fun in your child's life, I'd really try the Beckham's charity. Adaptations harder- and don't even get me started on DFG's.

We may have to go the communication aid way sometime. And I shudder at the cost! The lack of access to communication aids by children who could potentially benefit in the UK is a disgrace.

oh I do so agree about the communications aids. I want dd to have one(she hopefully will whne she gets better with her head switches) but dread the cost. I think that should be provided by the goverment, not charitys.

Tha local rotary clubs is a good idea jimjams, they helped us with our last trike.