oh! where to begin!
i cannot leave him alone in any room with pens/crayons etc withouit him wrting on furniture/walls
he tears paper out of books and says he is making a palace (never anything else)
he peels lables off everything
takes batteries out of everything- and hides the cover to the battery compartment
hides important things-
cannot sit still
hates being looked at
sensitive to may items of clothing (lables/stitching/textures)
literal
touches other people inapproriately
He reminds me totally of T at the same age- and for that reason i am not as desparate as i felt about L....as T and A are 'happy in their own sweet way' and oblivious to the chaos they create.... however L gets distressed.
so school have noted much of this too- and put him on Sch Action + in nov- reviewing after half term i think.
interesting to me also- is that all books HE CHOOSES are non fiction....and he needs a dummy to 'smell his pillow' as he puts it- and he still sits in the original 0-3mth carseat he had - again so he can turn his head to the fabric and smell it when he is tired.
he also takes his clothes off quite alot (reminds me of Jo of the Jackson family [dummy/hates clothes])
However he seems to show empathy & remorse- so hopefully i can continue 'enjoying' him!