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hels9 · 21/04/2008 20:38

I'd be interested to know what anyone else thinks, but I do find it frustrating and a real shame when people whose children blatantly do have special needs in the literal interpretation of the phrase feel that posting on this board might be inappropriate. Special needs are, so far as I'm concerned, special needs of any kind - whether related to health, physical needs, behavioural or general-developmental. And that is why I look to this board for advice and support from understanding parents. Plenty of parents have children with special needs in several or all of those categories in any event, and it really would be tiresome to have to post the same message on several different boards to get to speak to everyone you want to.

I will rue the day we ever get separate boards for different categories of special need. (Anyway, the whole argument about dividing special needs up into more specific sub-categories reminds me a bit of the witterings on the Gifted and Talented board by disgruntled mothers who feel that there are too many merely clever children's parents posting on there, so the board really ought to be renamed, or the offending parents chased off with their tails between their legs - albeit that the reasons behind fearing this is the wrong board to post on are far more noble and sensitive to others' feelings than those behind the G&T comments).

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oiFoiF · 24/04/2008 11:05

Its all bollocks. I have athletes foot and I post

yurt1 · 24/04/2008 11:06

Flame - my second ever post on mumsnet (before a SN board) was that ds1 was borderline autistic but too mild to get a diagnosis. We've all been there- is he/isn't he? Awful time and something that comes up a lot on here I think.

Saggarmakersbottomknocker · 24/04/2008 11:06

Tea tree oil is good for athlete's foot Fio even a mild case is quite irritating I find.

yurt1 · 24/04/2008 11:07

Is it? DH has a withered foot from athletes foot. It is revolting. I will force him to use tea tree.

ChocolateRockingHorse · 24/04/2008 11:08

"Unqualified" meant as in, because he is MY child and I am the owner of my (sometimes deranged) thoughts and nobody (not even members of the Poater Clique!) are qualified to comment on What Goes On In My Mind!!!

oiFoiF · 24/04/2008 11:08

i will bear that in mind saggar. i use canesten which seems to have worked.....it was the only thing in my bathroom

coppertop · 24/04/2008 11:09

I don't have athlete's foot. I feel excluded from the SN board and won't be posting here any more, you cliquey people!

ChocolateRockingHorse · 24/04/2008 11:11

Yes canesten will work. Athletes foot is the same fungus (candida) as thrush (ugh), which should really be called Athlete's Fanny.

I have Athlete's Fanny at the moment (which is strange seeing as it is a loooong time since my fanny did anything athletic) due to antibiotics for my sinus infection.

And on that note I will leave you to go do some course work and improve my most dismal efforts in that area of my life.

Saggarmakersbottomknocker · 24/04/2008 11:11

Glad that the only thing in the bathroom wasn't Immac or hair gel. Wouldn't have been quite so successful methinks.

Mind you dh could do with Immac on his big hairy toes.

mshadowsisfab · 24/04/2008 11:12

me neither. how dare you start a quiche without me.

Saggarmakersbottomknocker · 24/04/2008 11:12

Thanks for that minge related info CRH.

yurt1 · 24/04/2008 11:12

Head and shoulders is meant to work too.

ChocolateRockingHorse · 24/04/2008 11:12

(Wait.. wait Coopertop.. have you ever had Athlete's Fanny tho??? You may yet be allowed to stay....)

mshadowsisfab · 24/04/2008 11:13

do you sing it?

oiFoiF · 24/04/2008 11:13

lol on fanny or foot

oiFoiF · 24/04/2008 11:13

oh god dd deleted most of my message
whatmisery

DrScaredOfNorks · 24/04/2008 11:13

Why are you oiF?

I don't know if I will ever be sure about DD, although she is seeming "more" somehow lately (put me in a room with a paediatrician and I will have no idea what I am talking about, or how she is seeming it, but there you go). I DO know though that be it AS or just a quirky child, you understand.

I posted on chat about bloody aquafresh changing the colour of milk teeth toothpaste, and it was only really Psycho and someone with a child with AS (I'm sorry for forgetting who that is )(also, can never be sure if it should be a child with AS, or an AS child) who "got" what the problem was. I think if I had posted on here I would have gotten very different replies.

I have seen the is he/isn't he posts so often since my own Yurt, I agree - they come up a lot. I like the fact that no-one ever groans and says we've done this before. People still reply, share their story of when they felt the same, and generally support.

Saggarmakersbottomknocker · 24/04/2008 11:15

I keep reading Oif as Oaf. And you're not.

coppertop · 24/04/2008 11:15

Nope. No Athlete's Fanny either.

DrScaredOfNorks · 24/04/2008 11:15

Ooh this has continued since I started that post and sorted nickjr website etc

I have had Athlete's Fanny I get to stay in the quiche.

D'ya think immac on fanny would help?

Saggarmakersbottomknocker · 24/04/2008 11:16

Oh well CT if you don't have fungal you can stay anyway cos you're a Fun Gal. Geddit?

ChocolateRockingHorse · 24/04/2008 11:18

It would help to make it bald obviously!! But it stings like feck, apparenlty(according to friend's DH who though it would be a good idea to put it on his nuts recently! ) so don't!
Now stop being amusing all of you, I'm not supposed to be here!!

misdee · 24/04/2008 11:18

i have a verruca, cani join?

coppertop · 24/04/2008 11:19

Saggar's found a way for me to join the clique!

In the interests of inclusion and all that, do you have any fungal infections, Katarina?

oiFoiF · 24/04/2008 11:20

why do mumsnet take so long to respond to trolls