Hey
After over 10 weeks of waiting yesterday my child received a decline. I will be honest I broke down when they listed their reasons. To the point I had to ask 'are you sure you have even looked at my child's claim?'
It felt like their reasons were read from a generic document and have no relevance to my child's application. Nothing at all related!
However it wasn't until the care part that really upset me. My DS needs alot of extra help/care/supervision. I find it draining how demanding he is of me still. They dismissed he needed any additional assistance with anything and apparently he is able to do everything I gave very clear examples of that he actually can't. The list is very very long!
I know it sounds strange but has anyone experienced this where it feels like their reasons have no relevance to the claim you submitted?
I sent off his medical records, medical diagnoses, CAMHS referrals, OT, details of therapy through school and school SENCO details. His isn't diagnosed yet with additional needs but we are pursuing an ADHD/ASD diagnosis.
I'm absolutely gobsmacked over the decision. It doesn't make sense to me at all. Not at all!!
I need to wait for my papers for come back to file an MR but what the hell do I need to do? Yesterday I felt so drained with it all and how things are escalating at home so all I did was cry. Today I'm full on 'they are taking the piss, telling me he doesn't need any assistance'. I dont wish my child to struggle like he does. I wish his life was easier. But its not.
Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you