First off, DD is 3 and has ASC. (Does not do well being touched a lot.)
We are on holiday in Bulgaria (not so nice but what do you expect for £900.) DD was dancing on the stage before start of kids disco and was playing with the other kids, tbf they were all a bit rowdy. First off, DD and another girl bumped heads. DH and I saw and didn't intervene cos no one was hurt all ok. The woman looking after other girl came over and I heard the girl say my DD pushed her. But she didn't.
Then, other girl was trying to get DD to hold hands and DD didn't want to so she pushed other girl clean over. I went over and explained to DD pushing is wrong, whatever happened first, and made her apologise to other girl. The woman came over again and spoke to the girl who I believe is 4. She gave DH and I such a glare as she walked past that an hr later I am still a bit upset. DD had been warned that if she pushed anyone again we would go to bed and miss dancing.
DD pushed again, for no reason I can see. So we went to back to the room and did lots of explaining and talking about pushing is not nice, kind hands and stuff. She was asleep quick so I am assuming tiredness was part of it. She has never pushed another child, (she never went near them until a few months ago!)
So my wwyd, do I apologise to the death stare woman? Do I leave it. Or do I wait to see her. At risk of coming across snobby, woman is rather more "worldly" than me, and is quite gobby. I am worried she will shout at me :(