JJXM- With the greatest respect, I know my child has autism and I have accepted this a long while ago. Just because I don't agree with typical
'autism' interventions, doesn't mean that at all.
I think his main issue is communication (social) his speech is secondary.
I'm an advocate for ABA- that's (mostly) an autism intervention- but researching lots about to it to see if it would be right for DS.
There are mums that's I've met that don't agree with most 'autism' interventions.
As a parent, I have right to question why they want to set up things (interventions) for my DS. Usually the conversations with the school start like this "...xxxx we should set up a work-station for DS...", me: "Why?", School: ... Cause children with autism benefit from structure".
Ok, yes DS has autism. But they look at the autism first, then at the child. They don't explain to me WHY this would be beneficial for DS. If they said ".. DS gets distracted in class- blah blah blah and the workstation would help him to focus...", then I'll be more inclined to listen and take their advice. But if every time I question something and all I get is "..all children with autism.." and they can't explain why this would be beneficial for DS (... because they haven't seen to see him in class). I'm going to retaliate.
I think they should work on his communication, through play. I'm not dismissing the workstation entirely, just saying it can be used later on.
No zzzz, he won't have a one to one.