Thank you so much for doing this!
I have a lot of respect for, and interest in, ABA as I see it as a potentially very empowering model for disabled children/young people which has a very clear evidence base.
However, my experience with it to date for a 10/11 year old with Asperger's has been very disappointing.
Those engaged with drawing up programmes were very experienced and trained by leading organisations (or based at Universities). They were not charlatans but both seemed to think the views/interests of a child were insignificant and what mattered was what the adults wanted the child to be/do. One consultant had two very lengthy visits to my son's school but didn't even spend time talking to him about at any point during 6 hours spent in school. I know this because I was there.
Neither consultant seem to have any understanding of the reality of secondary mood disorders for children with AS at this age. In fact, they were very dismissive of terms like 'anxiety' as if this was just the child's excuse for getting their own way. However, although they dismissed the use of terms which I felt hindered their agenda, they were quick to use value laden terms like 'tantrum' to support their own point.
The approach seemed to be very 'normalising' and entirely inconsistent with the ideas set out in law in the Equality Act of making reasonable adjustments.
This was not just what I thought. My son's school, who were very welcoming to the idea of ABA (and had paid themselves for a non-verbal, younger child to have it) were very shocked by the scant regard paid to the 'whole child'. We agreed together that we would not follow what was being suggested.
In a nutshell, I asked for help as I had a disengaged, highly anxious 10 year old Aspie who I felt was in danger of completely dropping out of education. Their only answer was to force him to do as he was told.
I now have an 11 year old who is out of school altogether with a package of tutoring paid for by the LA. His mental health is very good but his psychologist says he has suffered a traumatic response to his school experience over many years which borders on PTSD.
So, isn't there a need to admit that many practitioners simply aren't trained or equipped to offer advice and support to children like my son?
Isn't there also a need to ensure that the agenda is child-focused and not normalising?