I enjoyed watching it. my lovely babysitter who teaches in a TEACHH school (no pun intended) said of the pale child at St Christophers "oh, he'll be tube fed" even before the lady on the tv did. she says its is the norm in her school as well because they have been taught to allow the kids do whatever they want. none of the year 5s in her class she teaches kids are potty trained which i find scary.
I was uncomfortable with the arguments against ABA being an evil method that that makes kids comply with adult demands and wishes and that society makes miserable conformists of autistic people. Society probably makes miserable conformists of us all especially teenagers. I work in the secondary sector and they all protest that way when asked to dress up properly, stop slouching ,do homework.. the list is endless.
I have an autistic son (who appeared breifly in the background) and an NT son and to me they both need boundaries. I find myself asking NT son to do things he doesn't want to, make him go to bed when he'd rather watch tv, i tell him what constitutes good and safe behaviour and tell him that lots of good things in life come with hard work. I find that it makes sense to do the same as far as reasonably practical with his brother who is sometimes being a regular naughty child pushing boundaries.
it's not ok to hit/headbutt me or anyone else to express frustration, it's not ok to tear your brother's books (so we you with provide old newspapers from time to time), it's not ok to engage in poo smearing however calming and stress relieving it is and you need to find alternative strategies for relieving stress, it's not ok to grind your hips/groin against anyone as a stim, no you cannot eat food from the bins in the park or try to chomp on other peoples dogs to see if they are made of meat, or lie down on the zebra crossing because the car honked his horns and startled you, or to be attracted to electric appliance cables only when plugged in and turned on. and I would rather overlook a tantrum in order to stop help you find other ways which are not going to harm you or cause your further isolation from others. I'll take the bear hugs though.
i like the following response from Temple Grandin www.medscape.org/viewarticle/498153:
"Medscape: A recent story in The New York Times examined the conflicts that occur between some people with autism, some of whom protest any treatment, and their parents.
Dr. Grandin: I've read those things, the whole conflict about ABA -- applied behavior analysis. Those techniques are mainly for very little children, for 2 to 5 year olds, to get language started. They're not for high-functioning 8 and 9 year olds. And most people in those protests are the more mild Asperger's types. We need to be working on developing the talents those people have so they can have jobs and support themselves. I really believe there's a certain portion of high-functioning Asperger's patients who need to be going to the university and getting in with their intellectual peers, and just skipping the whole teenage mess because that's not a life skill you need anyway. And it was the worst part of my life, absolutely the worst. Interacting with teenagers is not part of my career!"