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OH MY GOD! It's our tribunal tomorrow morning!!!!!

46 replies

RexandBen · 17/02/2004 22:11

(((YIKES!!!!))) I'm starting to get very nervous now
It seems ridiculous to me that we've had to come this far just to have DS1 assessed.
Well I'd better get off to bed now (got to get the 7am train to London!)

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Stargazer · 17/02/2004 22:15

Hi RexandBen - good luck for tomorrow. I'm assuming this is your appeal tribunal for a Statutory Assessment. I hope it goes well for you and you get what you want. Keep us posted.

coppertop · 17/02/2004 22:15

Best of luck for tomorrow, Rexandben. Let us know how it goes. xxx

Lisa78 · 17/02/2004 22:17

Lots of luck - keeping fingers crossed

Davros · 17/02/2004 22:17

Good luck, hope it goes well and let us know what happens.

eidsvold · 18/02/2004 07:27

hope it all goes well today. You are already on the train but i hope you feel the vibes

Jimjams · 18/02/2004 08:17

Good luck!

Thomcat · 18/02/2004 09:46

Sending you lots of luck and love RexandBex. I look forward to hearing how well it went

fio2 · 18/02/2004 09:52

Good Luck Rexand BenSmile

mrsforgetful · 18/02/2004 13:48

Everything crossed for you! I'll get the video sorted for you - i have been a VERY-MRSFORGETFUL!

coppertop · 18/02/2004 17:25

I keep checking to see if there's any news.

(Apologies to all those who have just clicked on this thread thinking it was Rexandben with the news! )

twiglett · 18/02/2004 17:27

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Davros · 18/02/2004 18:04

I'm doing it too! Can't wait to find out what happened and hope it went well.

RexandBen · 18/02/2004 20:23

Hi everyone! Thank you for all your messages
Well the day was quite harrowing and very tiring but thank god its all over now...

The LEA's refusal to assess DS1 was based on the fact that they maintain that their provision of 2 sessions in a nursery per week with an ancillary support worker was adequate to address his needs.

This is of course ridiculous - we have very good reports (including ones from Gillian Baird and Auriol Drew and a well respected Ed Psych) all saying that he needs an intensive programme and that LEA provision was wholly inadequate. The LEA ignored every recommendation in these and their barrister picked out one point - that Dr Baird says ideally this would involve a combination of nursey and home programme and used this to put down our home programme and make the LEA's (crappy) provision sound great.

The head of Early Years even went as far as to say that Auriol Drew (a well known autism expert SALT) was wrong with her recommendations, and that our Ed Psych (who was also one of our witnesses) was wrong when he described DS1 as having severe autism - EVEN THOUGH the stupid cow and none of her 'team' have ever met or assessed DS1!

She also said that because DS1 had good gross motor skills and his main problems are with receptive and expressive language then he is likely to progress well and certainly will not need a statement, because kids like this presenting with 'severe' autism at 2-and-a-half often suddenly catch up. I mean - WHAT PLANET IS THIS WOMAN ON!!

AARRRGGGGGGGG!!!! Its was sooo frustration but our solicitor Paul Conrathe was very good and in his summing up he very clearly and logically pointed out the flaws in the LEA's provision.

Its a waiting game for us now - although the panel have already decided who have won - we wont find out for another 2 weeks! This will no doubt be tortuous but there is nothing we can do now.

Sorry for the essay - had to vent!! Thanks for your support

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coppertop · 18/02/2004 20:33

Where do they find these people??? I'd love to know where they got the idea that autistic children suddenly get better at 2.5yrs and don't need any help. I wouldn't have known whether to laugh or cry at that particular bit.

Well done on getting through it all. I hope the next 2 weeks are bearable. From the sounds of the LEA's flimsy arguments you have an excellent chance of getting what you need. Good luck. xxx

Davros · 18/02/2004 20:42

I didn't know you would have to wait another 2 weeks. Paul Conrathe is very good though. My son has execellent fine and gross motor skills, almost to an inappropriate level! He did not snap to and get better at 2.5 years, or since (although he's wonderful and has learnt and developed a lot).

Stargazer · 18/02/2004 22:17

Hi RexandBen - sorry to hear that you had such a hard day, but hopefully the tribunal panel will agree with all your evidence. You've done it now - have a glass of wine and try to relax. Hope the next couple of weeks aren't too difficult. Regards x

Jimjams · 18/02/2004 22:53

Suddenly get better? Fantastic! at 2 and a half my son had a diagnosis of "mild language delay". Blimey he should be reading completely converstaional by now then. Pity he still can't say yes or no (or anything else).

Surprised you didn't deck the stupid cow,

fuming on your behalf!

Fingers crossed xxx

eidsvold · 19/02/2004 07:41

sorry that some ignorant so and so made you so angry. Wishing you all the best for good news in a couple of weeks.

mrsforgetful · 19/02/2004 21:46

and 'this silly cow' thought your tribunal was TODAY- so have been thinking about you....on the wrong day! You can BLAME me if anything bad happens!

What is the point of paying to go private and get well respected people to write reports if the stupid idiots will just ignore them.

I am so cross for you! (and that's being polite!)

Take care!

Davros · 08/03/2004 10:15

Any news?

RexandBen · 10/03/2004 22:58

not yet Davros

still waiting - we thought they had 10 working days to let us know , apparently its 10-15 so at the latest they should have posted out the decision today. Its agonising....

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Thomcat · 11/03/2004 10:00

Fingers crossed for you.

coppertop · 13/03/2004 13:22

Have you heard anything yet? Still keeping fingers crossed for you here.

(Apologies yet again to all those of you who have just eagerly clicked on this thread thinking it was Rexandben! )

RexandBen · 14/03/2004 13:57

still no bl*y news here. I have been phoning SENDIST and they still havent had the report from the Chair who is apparently notorious with being late. On Wednesday It will be a whole 4 weeks since our tribunal and we were supposed to find out in 2 weeks!

Its so crap - you wait around forever for the LEA and its the same when you go to tribunal!

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Davros · 17/03/2004 17:38

Sorry folks, its just me! Well R&B, any news?