As is evident from some of my posts recently we are having terrible problems with my son with behaviour/social anxiety and his stammering. We've only recently asked for help from the HV - he's 4.3 and starts school in September. She has said that his behaviour is severe and has referred us to some parenting team (for parenting classes I assume, she mentioned Triple P course). She also said we could probably benefit from help from CAHMS but said they may not take him on due to his young age (she was waiting for a phone call back but we've not heard from her since). We also have an assessment with SALT on Thursday.
Every day with him since he was born really has been a real struggle. We've often thought it was due to the way he was born. I got diagnosed when I went into labour with severe pre-eclampsia and had a C section under a GA to get the baby out. He was born not breathing and fitting and had to be resuscitated. We were told he may have brain damage as a result but the brain scan came back okay. He was under the paed for the first year of his life but then discharged. The paed said he had suffered hypoxic ischemic encephalopathy at birth which is just a fancy name for deprived of oxygen.
We've always thought that his problems that are really starting to be noticeable now he's reached four stem from this but obviously we can't prove it.
Does anybody else have a child with special needs to who had a traumatic birth or was starved of oxygen?