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Where's the Friday Night?

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WetAugust · 20/07/2012 17:38

Cos I want to announce DS's DLA award decision received today- unchanged but now indefinite - Pass that Rose Wine

Now I shall have to find something else to do after my impending retirement. Grin

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AttilaTheMeerkat · 20/07/2012 17:49

Very good news indeed Wet re DS. Wine and Thanks are in order.

Well its now the start of the six weeks holidays and I shall enjoy spending time with DS till we embark on the Good Ship Named Year 9.

Has it really been nearly a week since Mr M and I stood on smelly woodchip in Hyde Park watching Bruce and Paul McCartney (who some jobsworth deliberately cut off before they finished singing). Yes it is!. Good weekend that.

StarlightWithAsteroid · 20/07/2012 17:51

Sure you'll think of something Wet! Smile

WetAugust · 20/07/2012 17:51

Ah, you were there Attila. Envy Those are 2 that I've never seen play live. Bet Bruce rocked the Park!

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UnChartered · 20/07/2012 17:52

any Wine spare?

am 2/3 of the way through DDs DLA form - congrats on the decision for your DS Wet

still no school place, but not worried yet

DD is having her very 1st sleep over tomorrow! DS2 will be with her, but it's the 1st time she's stayed overnight without myself or DH there

ohhh, Attila, you are now part of musical legend then - nice one!

StarlightWithAsteroid · 20/07/2012 17:53

Actually. I think I'll start on the wine too. DH got home and took out Ds and dd on their scooters and I'm stuck on the sofa now cluster feeding.

Asteroid gave us his first smile of many today - one week before he is supposed to

alison222 · 20/07/2012 18:09

Well the school holidays have now officially started.

DS left primary school today. Lots of tears from lots of his year but not him. He has said it is just starting to sink in that he will be in a different school from all his friends and is feeling a bit funny, but he has collected phone no's and e-mails and intends to keep in touch. He is currently updating his e-mail address book.
Work has been AWFUL this week ( I have very part time 2 jobs) and have handed my notice in at one of them. I feel very relieved now that I have made the decision but it will be the end of Sept before I can finally leave.

wet great that you have your DLA sorted now.

I need to go and organise food now.

moosemama · 20/07/2012 18:19

Wine for Wet, lovely to start of the thread with some good news. Smile

Atillla, I read that they cut the music off - how rude and annoying. Similar thing happened to us at a festival last year - blooming jobsworths indeed, fancy not letting them at least get to the end of their song. Hmm

Star, you are making me broody - and I am far too old to have another. Lol at G&T smiler baby! Grin

Well, I have had a rotten day, but have had a good sob, slapped myself across the face a couple of times and am ready to get on with things again.

Ds1 has has a great week. He finally passed the times tables league challenge that he's been taking repeatedly since y4. He kept getting all the answers right but only completing half the questions, so didn't have enough points to move up. His maths teacher was over the moon, so pleased for him she was tearful. She is a lovely person and an amazing teacher and by coincidence the dad dh met at the support group last night said she also happened to be the teacher who made the biggest difference to his ds when he was at ds's school.

He also learned and rehearsed a poem to recite for the school talent show. He doesn't usually bother about entering, but ds2 was and I think he felt a bit left out. He had a trauma about not having 'a talent' so I told him about when I did 'The Lion and Albert' Stanley Holloway monologue when I was about his age and how much the other children liked it - hence his poem recital.

Incredibly he passed the auditions, voted for by the other pupils in his year on the same day as his times table league success. Haven't seen a smile that big on his face for a very long time! Grin It was lovely, all the way home other children kept coming up and congratulating him. Smile

Had the actual competition this afternoon and didn't win, but his teacher came running out to see me when I was waiting in the playground this afternoon. She was so proud of him and told me how well he did, really clear performance, no sign of nerves (he was actually terrified, but hid it well) and beautifully read. Smile

Of course he thinks he was robbed, wholeheartedly unimpressed that the winning act was someone just shrugging their shoulders (body popping). He was three points short of third place, which is really good and he was ok with it in the end, as all the prizes were chocolate!

Ds2 and dd have been proper poorly this week with a horrible cough and cold. Dd is on the mend, but yet again I am worried about ds2 who is still very ill and spiking scary temps that continue to rise after calpol and only come down when he's given calprofen in between. Could be looking at an OOH visit to the docs methinks.

Oh - and I bought dd's first school uniform this week - cue more wimpy snivelling from me. My baby cannot be old enough to start nursery, I simply will not allow it! Grin

AttilaTheMeerkat · 20/07/2012 18:46

Wet, the concert is on Youtube; to me Thunder Road was worth the price of admission alone. I only wish I could play the piano that well.

Bruce and co did not appear on time on stage but this was also due to the fact that matting for these performers was being put down beforehand and some of the roadies were having difficulties laying down this matting.

I thought that when the sound was turned down at around 10.40 (you could hear the sound being turned down quite clearly) we would not hear them sing any more. Those performers on stage were not aware that we in the crowd could no longer hear them play and thus they were still performing.

I did chuckle to myself when I saw the youtube footage of Bruce and band on stage in Dublin with a large electrical generator!:).

Hope everyone has a lovely weekend. Am I really a part of musical legend, oh my!!!.

WetAugust · 20/07/2012 18:53

Thanks Attila - I'll take a look, now that I shall all this free time on my hands Grin

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Ineedalife · 20/07/2012 18:53

I finished work today for the summer and said goodbye to all but one of my key worker group and 3 out of 5 of my SN children who are all off to nursery or school. Bless them.

Dd3 doesnt finish until Monday lunchtime.

We have 3 more camping trips lined up over the hols and hopefully will get some decent weather.

Hope everyones last day/week has gone ok and that you all get some time to chill over the hols.

creatovator · 20/07/2012 18:55

Hi all,

Wet great news... how did you manage to get the indefinite. We still have to reapply every 3 yrs. Due to do it this year, but Andrew's SW has promised lots of help with the form.

Attila glad you had a good time.

Unchartered Way to go.... a sleepover Smile.

Star Awww that's lovely Smile.

Alison sorry your work hasn't been great.

Moose Glad you're now feeling a bit better this evening. Well done to your DS1 and hope the colds and coughs improve soon.

Mixed week here. Generally DCs have been well behaved, even with the lousy weather, but DH has been stressed with his work (he works from home), so trying to keep the DCs a bit quieter, take them out etc. It also means DH does not disengage fully from work when not working and so I have to think for both of us Sad. Then I get grumpy and think I'm the worst Mum Sad. However, I had a meeting with an advisor I have for the Social Enterprise I set up, and it was very, very encouraging Grin.

Desperatelygettingthere · 20/07/2012 18:56

Evening all. Glad there's some good news about - sorry for those who have had bad weeks. Am knackered as had less than 3 hours kip (stressing about things) and then had a really hectic day at work so will be early to bed tonight. was a bit down following the dx but trying to pick myself up again. Following my major complaint I was told that the HT was apparently having to have several tele-conferences with high ranking county officials today so that must have spoiled his last day of term. hopefully more support will be forthcoming.
Glad to see the weather's improved - I have the Olympics soon and then a spot of camping so hoping it stays dry.

creatovator · 20/07/2012 18:58

Ineed Camping.. that's brave.

StarlightWithAsteroid · 20/07/2012 19:02

Ineed, - where are you camping. We are planning a bit too.

I was thinking of perhaps starting a thread so that people can link up their camping trips perhaps. As ever, we are planning to book our sites today or tomorrow or whenever, - some time soon I hope, - avoiding those that demand min 7 days - obviously. DS is SO not from an autistic family Hmm - disorganisation-a-go-go!

StarlightWithAsteroid · 20/07/2012 19:03

Maybe they gave up in the end Wet. Perhaps if you still have autism when you reach adulthood then it is agreed you have it for life Hmm

ouryve · 20/07/2012 19:18

Great news, Wet.

Never thought I would be glad about the end of term arriving, but DS1 has had such a shouty, angry week and he's so comparatively laid back, this evening. Even his nagging is low key instead of at full volume. He's asking very nicely for his lego back - it's been in time out all week because of his shoutiness - poor DS2 couldn't even look at it without being yelled at.

DS2 was amused when I found a set of colourful toothbrushes in his lunchbag, this evening. His 1:1 had been using them as rewards for doing his SALT tasks with her. They've been laid out and admired on just about every surface in the room, now!

Summer123 · 20/07/2012 19:18

Hi Guys
It is soo good to hear of other people with last minute / absent plans for holiday camping. And mosemama, you're brill! giving positive comments on everybody's good fortune and then announcing a moan.

So I'll follow your example and have a moan now - My difficulty is trying to get everybody to commit to at least one week together and then I can plan where we go!
cheers all, this rose is rather good! Are there any nibbles?

WetAugust · 20/07/2012 19:18

No idea, Creatovator. 4th renewal so perhaps this time they've decided to reduce their admin Grin

Star - all previous applications were in adulthood. Thought I would just have to keep doing it every 2 years forever.

I bet they take it away again when the new system comes in.

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creatovator · 20/07/2012 19:26

Wet don't say that Shock. Surely they can't when he's on indefinite.

moosemama · 20/07/2012 19:28

Signing out - emergency hospital trip with ds2 who has suddenly taken a turn for the worst. Temp 40.5 and rising after calpol and calprofen. Sad

Wish me luck x

UnChartered · 20/07/2012 19:32

aw no, moose hope he's ok

{{hugs}} for all

creatovator · 20/07/2012 19:33

Moose Sending prayers.

Ineedalife · 20/07/2012 19:54

moose hope he feels better soonSad

star, we are doing 3 wales trips 1 to nantcol waterfalls, 1 to saundersfoot and one to blackrock sands nr porthmadog.

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LollipopViolet · 20/07/2012 20:01

Evening everyone. Sending thoughts your way Moose x

I've had a "meh" week. Trying to find work, and generally feeling a bit rubbish about the whole thing.

That all changed today - my lovely mum and I are going to Prague in September for 4 nights.

I've also found out I can keep working for the University's in house production company indefinitely, and get paid - yay! So I can keep my hand in while I look for work.

Also got to spend time with my friend and her 11mo DS - he's adorable and I love seeing him, and watching him grow. He currently thinks he's a goat though - loves attempting to eat paper Hmm

He's still very cuddly though Grin