Hello paigeysmummy.
ds had a negative result from his kleefstra test, but then we had a call from the geneticist to say that Dr Kleefstra's team in Holland wanted him to be part of a study into novel candidate genes which could be involved in future diagnoses of Kleefstra. They had looked at his photos and clinical history and decided that it still looks likely that he has Kleefstra. So we are in a strange inbetween place, where he is being treated as having a 'possible diagnosis'.
I was unable to join the Kleefstra org. forum (link here, as he hasn't got a full blown diagnosis. But that would not be a problem in your case.
I am a member of a facebook group, if you are a fb user. They are mostly in America, but it is a worldwide group, and there are a number of Brits and Scots. They have been incredibly welcoming, and I have found it the single most helpful thing since ds was 'diagnosed', as he has so many of the same issues as the children there.(Although these boards are, in general the most supportive and wonderful place, I would be lost without the people on mnsn)
Ds is 2.5 and has low tone, severe speech delay, global developmental delay, feeding issues, frequent respiratory infections. He has very bad separation anxiety, and has just started to display some difficult behaviours. He is also gorgeous, very funny with an infectious Sid James style chuckle, who adores his big sisters (5 and 6).
If you want to pm me, or just chat on here that would be lovely. I would love to hear more about your dd, and maybe we could have a very small support thread of our own!
By the way there were also 2 mumsnetters who have children with Kleefstra, they very kindly emailed me, when I started this thread as I don't think they are very active on here any more.