Hi everyone, I was linked to this thread a while back after posting for advice on getting an official diagnosis for my 10yr old DD - HMS had been mentioned several times by various A&E doctors & her physio, but our GP was refusing a Rheumy referral - we got the referral after I started putting all my requests to our GP in writing & DD has now just been formally diagnosed with HMS & I suspect it is likely the true cause of my own health problems & my DMs too.
I have been on the HMSA forum, but to be honest it is really getting on my Ts, one over zealous moderator seems to have taken a dislike & it editing everything I post - first time I have EVER had that problem on any forum & I can't be bothered with it, lifes too short for dealing with tin pot Hittlers
- I was also none too chuffed after having ordered something from them to have it arrive with our email & phone number in full view on the outside of the envelope
I'm wondering if there are any decent HMS/EDS forums you can perhaps recommend - hopefully with more realist rules/moderation.
DD has has a LOT of accidents over the last couple of years and HMS makes sense now, her fitness has been affected by the accidents, bar one, no real follow up or physio, despite her having various joints immobile for long periods, then of course her age, all make sense s to why she has gotten worse in recent years - daily pain, exhausted & more - breaks my heart that she deals with it too, when she is still so young -
She has taken the diagnosis badly, even though I handed the specialist a list of her problems, topped with a note that DD is a worry wort & that I felt the need to play down the diagnosis/questions as a result - the Doctor was brilliant, but DD still seems to have gone into depression & as a result set off a bad flare up of her IBS - I know she's a toughy, but its heartbreaking to see her so ill & down:(
On the plus side, we now have specialist physio to see & occupational health who can help with school, shoe inserts etc too & her school thankfully are brilliant, though I'm a bit scared of handing over the HMSA school info, as its very full on & though I know DD needs some help & they need to know what she can & can't do ( most of her over extension injuries have happened at school) I'm worried they will feel the need to wrap her in cotton wool, which will affect her state of mind more as she's very active & loves sport etc.
I don't know the details of her diagnosis as it was difficult asking questions whilst playing it down - I do know she scored highly on the Beighton thing, with many more joints involved than listed, she also scores highly on the Brighton thing too - the only joints not really effected are her knees - they click, but are thankfully strong, so the Doctor said she can still play football - her hips, hands, wrist, ankles, shoulders, toe/feet, spine, neck are all affected & she has IBS & a degree of stretchy skin, gets exhausted easily, but is thankfully very determined & stoic, so at least has the strength of personality to deal with her condition - small mercies & all that
I probably have loads of question, but don't know where to start, so just saying hi & can I join in 