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Chundle · 11/05/2012 17:36

Hi all thought I'd kick us off!! Been busy week here! Dd1 has ear infection so she's whingy and miserable. DH been signed off work with stomach ulcer and hernia. Dd2 had docs and they want to test for coeliacs disease so blood test on tues is going to be fun!!

Also had meeting with preschool where dd2 will go in Sept and they said they will get her funding for a 1:1 not a problem!! Also said fine if she doesn't need it but it will be there as a back up!! Fab!!

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imogengladheart · 11/05/2012 17:43

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creatovator · 11/05/2012 17:47

Hi Chundle

Sorry to hear your family isn't so well, but glad for the good news about dd2s preschool. A rare find Grin.

Good week here. DCs are well and DS coped well with bank holiday and Tues in-service day. Declared he wasn't going back to school on Wed when he woke up, but came round to the idea. Had a good meeting with my Uni tutor yesterday. She suggested I take my time I have write my dissertation and take it slowly as my data is so rich I need to get to know it.

Just about to go out to some friends for a girl's night. We're getting a take away Grin Grin.

creatovator · 11/05/2012 17:49

Imogen sorry to hear that. We've had some dry weather in my part of Scotland. If I've got room I'll have some of the spring rolls when I get back.

alison222 · 11/05/2012 17:50

The sun is shining today! Hooray. I always feel better when it isn't grey and wet.
Spent Wednesday and yesterday re-drafting working document for SEN tribunal papers. Bloody LEA sent one to the tribunal conveniently leaving out all my requested changes that they acknowledged 6 weeks ago! Had to all all the bloody things back in when I'd worked out which ones they had ignored.

Still I feel like I got my own back by adding my OT assessment received that morning, so that they have no opportunity to diss it.

Have been catching up with real paid work today instead of yesterday now. and have to dash to take DD to Gymnastics.
Will be back later with gin and tonic and cheese biscuits. Wine

SallyBear · 11/05/2012 17:50

Well I am sat in the restaurant (laughable title) in IKEA with DH and DC. They're having tea, I'm trying to prevent DS4 from liberally pelting people with peas.....Grin
Not much to report except that I've got my new car (motability), which I have named Beyonce as she's bootilicious!! GrinGrin

I met up with cupoftea and her gorgeous baby Beatrice for a coffee this week. It was nice to meet and just talk about things that your average non MNSN wouldn't understand. Feel that I've made a new friend, always a nice experience. Smile

I will catch up with you all later, and check to see what wine and nibbles are left when I get back from the Swedish Superstore! Grin

signandsmile · 11/05/2012 17:52

hi chundle and imogen, i too will be checking in later, (will bring remains of choc cheesecake and wine.... Grin )

Sorry to heasr OT been pants (Imogen) and eveyrones been unwell (chundle)

been an ok week here at chez sign, feel like ive got lots done, and ds has been really good. dh has been away to see his mum, so he is happy (and will be re freshed for the hectic week we have coming up next week, Wink)

Ive actually got some seeds in the garden too.... a kind of chugging along ok week,

altho ds has suddenly learned the phrase 'i am bored' from someone at school.... so we are hearing that ALOT, whether he is not Hmm

signandsmile · 11/05/2012 17:54

Blimey I got left behind... hi to all who have posted. Sally Envy about the ikea trip, and create, nice feedback on your data Grin

moosemama · 11/05/2012 17:59

Hi Chundle, sympathies to your dd1 - I also have an ear infection and it's horrible. Poor dh too, stomach ulcers are no fun (been there done that as well Blush) - not had a hernia though. Hope dd's blood test is quick and painless.

Good news about the 1:1, always such a relief when schools are keen to help instead of constantly stalling and evading.

Imogen, saw your thread re OT. Sounds like they were about as much use as a chocolate teapot then. Angry

When the school didn't respond to us about bullying incidents, we wrote up what we knew from our perspective and presented them with that. This finally resulted in them getting several children to write witness statements, plus ds and the bully to write their own versions of what happened - and - lo and behold, it proved once and for all that ds was definitely being seriously bullied. It was this that led to them shuffling the classes and moving the bully into a different class. Keep on at them and put all your questions and statements in writing, even if they don't respond.

Crappy week here, as I said I've got an ear infection and have also had a horrible head, eye, neck pain thing going on. Feels like it could all be connected and coming from some sort of inflammation. I know it's my own fault though, I've done far too much over the past few weeks and a crash was kind of inevitable. Unfortunately I have tickets to a festival with dh and dd next weekend, so it's not over yet and if I have to miss that I shall cry. Sad

I have also eaten just about my own weight in chocolate this week whilst feeling sorry for myself and am now too scared to get on the scales. Blush

It's FILs birthday party tomorrow and I'm supposed to have made a gazillion cupcakes, plus a couple of victoria sandwiches. Been too rough all day, so am hoping to recruit dh to help me throw them together later this evening. Of course, will have to make a gf version of everything as ewll so that ds1 doesn't miss out. I usually love baking, but I only ever seem to get asked when I'm well enough these days.

Moaning aside, the school has been very good with ds2 and his hypermobility and are doing everything they promised they would to help him be more comfortable and to encourage him to speak up when he's in pain. I have also contacted his paed, who was actually interested in receiving some more family history to help him work out what to do next, which was a pleasant surprise.

Ds1 has had a good week at school, but is waaay behind on yet another school project - rivers/water this time with three mini projects, which he refuses to even start. We're supposed to be going to a museum of canal history on Sunday to help him, thrilling as that may sound, I am really not sure I'm going to be up to it. Wink

moosemama · 11/05/2012 18:03

Blimey, mega cross post - I blame dd for wanting to honk my nose while I was typing (not my mahoosively verbose writing style - oh no). Grin

Seems everyone is posting and running though, so I will look in again later.

Sally - love the new car's name! Grin

signandsmile · 11/05/2012 18:17

Hi moose, hope you are feeling up to the festival, and the baking goes ok...

Chundle · 11/05/2012 18:18

Damn I just wrote a whole post replying to everyone and I lost it!!

Sign cake plzzzz
Moose hope you feeling better soon.
Alison I love the sun!!
Creator glad you've had good week.

Imogen I'm waiting to hear back from DK her secretary text me two weeks ago to say she would ring soon with an app. Not heard since. I've rang both numbers and emailed no response!

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AttilaTheMeerkat · 11/05/2012 18:49

Hello everybody

Anyone for some chocolate cake and strawberries?.

Love the new car name Beyonce (a better name than "the Wee Beastie" aka my car).

Get well soon wishes go out to Moosemama, Chundle's DD and DH. Best wishes also to her DD2 re the blood test next week.

Having lived under tupperware grey sky all week it makes a nice change to see some sun here now.

Its our wedding anniversary tomorrow as well:). We went abroad to get married those years ago.

LollipopViolet · 11/05/2012 18:57

Hello everyone!

Wine and nibbles to all who need them.

The week has been mixed. One deadline is out of the way, but there's only two weeks til the BIG ONE. The FINAL one. So no taking my foot off the gas yet. Also realizing finding a job when I finish is going to be horrible - see thread in AIBU about THAT one!

However...

DBoyfriend came out of hospital properly yesterday!!!!!!

Guess what? You know how some of you said, "Oh, it's the meds"? Well, the doctors took til Wednesday to say "Hmm, nothing we're doing is working, let's try 24 hours off the antibiotic and see how he goes." But he's out, he's happy and I got to see him today and yesterday - he bought me a lovely personalized mug, from the same place I got his one for Valentine's Day, so I'm over the moon with that. We're also on the lookout for a nice watch for me - I got him one for Christmas and he says he wants to get me one too :)

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Badvoc · 11/05/2012 19:12

Hello all Smile

Sorry so many of you and the dc are ill Sad Its pants isnt it?

This post might be a bit mammoth, so my apologies! Grin

Bank hol weekend a total disaster! Went away with a friend and the hotel had to be evacuated! Water supply had failed. My friend wasnt feeling well anyway so we came home. Ds2 was ill all over the bank hol and I couldnt figure out what was wrong with him...he was complaining of a sore mouth/throat/lips (NOT helped by him whacking his mouth with a mallet on saturday!!!) There were funny marks on his feet too but dh said i was imagining it Hmm Anyway, after 2 nights of very disrupted sleep he seemed better and was eating again. Went to pre school on weds (hadnt been since the previous thurs( and they have had a case of hand, foot and mouth!! So thats what it must have been. Poor little thing Sad

Had my biopsy done on weds. Word of warning ladies...if you ever have to have an endometrial biopsy (and I hope you never do) have the anaesthetic offered and dont try to "tough it out" Sad Coil in now so we will see of my iron levels improve. I am not hopeful.

Still feel terrible. Still exhausted. Still fed up of being fed up Sad

On a happier note;

We finally got the results of ds1's assessment by the STS (specialist teaching service) that he had back in Feb and its good news Smile

His reading ability is accelerating rapidly - his spelling isnt sadly but hey ho -he is now officially "average" Grin In fact in comprehension he is "above average"!! For the 1st time his CA and RA are the same!!! Smile

Ds2 got a b day party to go to tomorrow and ds1 is going to one on sunday Smile Have spent all afternoon ironing so am in a foul mood and hope dh brings me back some choc!!!

Do hope the coil doesnt bring out "The Rage" Grin

moosemama · 11/05/2012 19:16

Happy Anniversary Attilla! Is it rude to ask how many years? We will have been 20 years married and 25 together in July this year - I think that makes us officially O-L-D! Grin

Lollipop, glad to hear dbf has been discharged. I think reactions to the meds are more common than many people realise - including doctors! Try and take a breather before the push for your last deadline, even if its just a small one.

EllenJaneisnotmyname · 11/05/2012 19:16

Sorry, quick one as going out with work mates, boys with the dick!

Sorry to hear about ear infections and rain etc.

Glad to hear about beyonce and ikea trips etc.

My friend's house blew up yesterday! Actually her next door neighbours house did in a gas explosion but it's a terrace so hers is so badly damaged it will have to be demolished. Sad It's about 1/2 a mile or so from me but the explosion made our windows rattle. No one killed and even the old lady in the house survived with fairly minor injuries considering her house is a pile of rubble.

lisad123 · 11/05/2012 19:23

Updating and running quickly as dinner is on.
Been a mad week here. My big sister went into labour at 31 weeks and so have had her kids here with us including an overnight. Lucky they manage to stop the labour for now but dd1 found so many in her house so very hard Sad
Dd2 showed dh her nasty side at the zoo on Monday when she started yelling at a boy Confused he was shocked, I wasnt!
Nursery are having a lot of trouble with her too but found out from autism teacher that they are slacking on the suggested ways of managing her, so I give them no sympathy Wink
Dd1 has gone for her first ever proper sleep over!! She is very excited as am I.

The car broke down so a little stressed about that Angry

OT for dd2 wants to be at transition meetings to explain what new school need to do Grin

Think that's pretty much us this week Grin
Hope your all ok x

moosemama · 11/05/2012 19:24

What is it with everyone going out and having a life this evening. Envy

Seriously though, have a lovely evening everyone. Smile

Ellen Shock at your friend's house. You hear about these things happening on the news occasionally, but never believe it could happen to you. So glad to hear no-one was seriously injured, but still awful for your friend, especially having to have her home demolished. Sad

Chundle · 11/05/2012 19:24

Imogen I'm going to ring and ring and ring on Monday!! What date have you got if you don't mind me asking? We were told it would be September time

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devientenigma · 11/05/2012 19:42

just doing a quick hello, will try and get back but I'm wrecked !!

Have done 20 rounds with a heavyweight boxer all week, missed out on 2 nights respite, got 2 doors waiting to be put back on, the ritual nightly drive still to do etc etc...............

sorry to hear about poorly peeps, broken cars etc

hope the weekend is better!!!

Wine or Brew anyone..........

UnChartered · 11/05/2012 19:45

DD was asking for melatonin on her way to bed - so have given her some again, just waiting for dinner to cook then i'll be having a wee drink with DH and DS2

i can't keep up with this thread - DD has worn me out Grin

bochead · 11/05/2012 19:50

I've come over all efficient this week, (so ruining my chances of ever being considered employable by an LA Wink

Replaced nintendo DS
Boiler repairman coming out Monday
Collect new glasses Tuesday
Sent email to HT re lack of SALT and lunchtime supervision as specified in statement that I'd been putting off for weeks
Contacted CDC to find out when they are coming into school to see DS to complete latest asd diagnostic attempt.

Now if I can only tidy up the pigsty I currently inhabit I may even rustle up the energy to go to war with adult SS over the complete shambles they are making of my sister's life next week.

It's nearly G&T o'clock Grin

devientenigma · 11/05/2012 19:52

Thanks unchartered will get it later lol have the Friday tea time carer on the phone, DS has attacked her!!

So this week he's attacked me, siblings, dad, home tutor and carer...............

UnChartered · 11/05/2012 19:55

is he out socialising or out for respite, dev?