ime, only by finding out on here about groups, direct payments, respite, family fund, etc. not that we necessarily got anyhting, or even applied, but it has all been filed for when we might need it, or it becomes relevant etc.
I have never been 'offered' anything for dd1 - whether SALT, OT, POrtage, any disabled/SN groups or holiday schemes, etc. all found out, by me, by word of mouth, by reading endless leaflets on noticeboards in waiting rooms, by stalking people (
) on here to see what they might be getting.
all exhausting, tbh.