Ok I'm gonna go out on a limb here - the majority of the posters to this board are here BECAUSE conventional approaches to all aspects of special needs are not working.
We ALL step "outside the box", the day we first say "but" or walk out of yet another GP's visit, school meeting, HV appointment, thinking "there MUST be more out there, somewhere, that can be done to help my child please god"
On here we all share all sorts of ideas that would probably have the usual town hall jobsworths cringing in terror if they only knew (and there is a poster on here who can confirm that when she was stalked in this very location the "official response wasn't positive!).
In the outside world much of what we as a board, get up to such as ABA is regarded as beyond the pale(the social worker's reaction to my doing a 2 day intro course in this was "interesting" shall we say). Running out of patience and asking for a second medical opinion or making a parental statement application are fairly standard responses on here that are seen as pretty daring to the outside world.
The cutting edge of science, is always experimental and sadly without a time machine our children are the guinea pigs. Neuroscience in particular is in it's infancy.
Due dilligence is the term I think we need to apply as all our kids are so different and the range of issues we are dealing with is so vast. This board acts as both a sanctuary for our turbulent emotions as we negoiate the labyrinth of the SEN system, and an amazing source of ideas, to research.
I said ideas - 'cos that's all anyone on an anomymous forum can give us at the end of the day. I think there are some of the brightest minds I've come across on this board, and as such would hate it if people became put off suggesting ideas in future.
Sorry for the essay 