Indigo: There were about 4 different bits that he pointed out on his brain model that weren't up to speed with DS. I've forgotten the names and locations and would just like to have a look at the bits online, I'm an information junkie.
Took DS to his paed appointment today, she was very nice and thorough, longest NHS appointment I've ever had with anyone and all the way through it I felt like she was going to get to the end and tell me off for wasting her time as he behaved well and didn't fidget much!!
However, at the end she says she will refer to OT and write to school and ask about his behaviour there, she thinks there may be some ASD traits there which isn't presenting itself fully in a room of adults as he was today but at school he may have problems interacting with his peers, especially with his iron will and stubbornness. Depending on what the teacher says she will refer to CAMHS (sp?) if required. There is definately something sensory going on from her tests and questions and he has very loose joints so all that will be addressed now through the NHS pathway.
It's amazing how two healthcare professionals assessing the same child for the same thing on two consecutive days can be looking at this from such different angles. One made me feel really positive and the other a little bit like shit tbh and I had a quiet cry in the loo on the way out
The doctor seemed very nice and good, don't get me wrong, but it seemed so much less about DS and what can be done rather than just sending us onto the next healthcare professional. I suppose that's what you pay for with TH!
The only positive thing from all of this is that they both (TH and paed) think that whatever it is is mild enough to not be a huge problem for DS and I thank my lucky stars for that but at the same time a month or so ago I didn't think there was anything wrong
and I'm concerned things may not be as bad as they are going to get. Whatever, we know about it now and forewarned is forearmed or something
and he seems to be taking all this in his stride.