Thanks for that. No I haven't joined the fb SDR group as I don't do facebook, for a number of reasons mainly to do with my job , and whatever the circumstances personally that is not negotiable. Increasingly I know that makes me a fuddy duddy and maybe I will change my mind later but i don't like the legal risks in fb.
In respect of my paed, I actually disagree. But it's really funny (and interesting) how we all get different information. Now I know all children are different but the treatments aren't that different.
On the botox all the paeds we have spoken to, along with Bobath say that there would be no risk in reality of any kind of seizures for the muscles which would be injected, and our paed has never had any negative side effects from the botox she has done despite having gone through them with us. It does all depend on the muscles involved though as the main risks are is the neck is injected. Now she is funny about injecting gastrocs but DS doesn't have tightness there so that' for us is not an issue. She is a UK authority on botox and has done other local children I know.
This will potentially out me, so maybe I can see another namechange coming along, but she also sits on the research committee at bristol and is invoved with their ethics committee. If she didn't believe in SDR then I doubt she would do that. She is a bit hoity toity and "just trust me I'm a doctor", and we don't just trust anything, but on this issue so far I do. And insofar as i trust the NHS on anything I trust it for this as she will do the referral to Bristol, so it wouldn't be her opinion anyway.
For anyone else reading this the issue between bristol and St Louis (apart of course from money!) is how far into the nerve they cut which is why there may be the bladder issues for some US children.
Also for anyone else reading this the one thing which I would strongly recommend to everyone is that you try to get the best gp possible. In all of the stuff we have looked at it is our GP (well actually our GPs) who are by far the most use and best advocates we have had. We have had the GPs refer us to Bobath, and also out of area for a second opinion on splints, they have also agree to refer us to GOSH for a second opinion on something else (although to date we haven't done this) and it is never an issue. I moved GPs to this practice on the recommendation of a neighbour whose son is somewhere on the ASD spectrum and the neuorologist friend and it is the best thing I ever did. Our PAed is very aware that this GP practcie is very interventionist as she has spoken to them a few times about DS and in fact ended up being kicked into doing the bobath reports as a direct result of the GP getting in touch.