DS1's diet isn't bad. He eats a good balance of most types of food, though isn't too keen on meat or poultry and hates even slightly hot spicy food. (loves ham and pastrami, though!) Currently the only bread he'll eat is white, he's not too keen on potatoes unless they're chips or mash and he won't touch rice, this month. HIs real problem with food isn't to do with variety, but more to do with refusal to eat at all if he is the slightest bit stressed.
DS2 is the fussy one, but getting better.
He loves bread and toast - specially textured, seedy breads.
Breakfast is ready brek, always, unless he's really sick (seems to be a popular ASD food!). It always has fruit puree in it to sweeten it and lately, he's actually enjoyed a bit of chopped banana and even a tiny bit of home grown strawberry finely chopped into it.
Sandwich fillings and toast toppings - peanut butter, marmite, dry cured ham, cheese spread and occasionally pastrami!
Pizza - but no big lumps of veg on top!
Potatoes have to be fried - chips, tatie waffles or similar
Crisps - he will mug you for crisps
Cake - he likes some more than others - doesn't like it too soggy. Biccies he loves, though!
He mostly likes his protein in breadcrumbs or batter - crunch is the order of the day. He'll occasionally eat plain meat, but he'll just as often chew it and spit it out. He loves M&S crispbakes and fish cakes.
Yoghurt, he loves!
And he loves cooked fruity puds with custard or cream - crumbles, pies, eves pudding, etc, even when the fruit is quite tart. The boy loves rhubarb, even when it makes me wince and goes mad for the blackcurrants out of the garden - he'll even touch them, raw because he loves the smell!
He's just recently discovered the joy of a fried egg. We can hide a few microscopic bits of veg in a fritatta.
And baked beans are the one savoury veg he'll eat.
He loves ketchup, HP sauce and sweet and sour sauce
We've very slowly built up to this. He actually ate a hot dog last weekend. Not a great triumph nutritionally, but a massive one in terms of texture.