lougle, with respect, I disagree.
dd1 is not receiving a gold star education.
she is receiving the only education that has shown it works (for her, not talking general statistics here)
it does nt, btw, cost anymore than the shit service the LA want to put her in. not once you factor in all the "extra" cpsts she would need (and I would ensure she got) like quantified SALT, OT, proper trained support etc.
there is plenty that is wrong with dd1's education. nothing is perfect, and I am not chasing perfection. her school is very good at what it does, but it has it's limitations - there being only 3 pupils clearly being one of them!
the grounds are not huge, btw - please do not let oyur prejudices create fantasies here. it is a tiny place, in someone's own home. there is no playground, little outdoor space, no space for art/craft lessons (they take place in her classroom, which has no water/place ot clear up - this brings issues, obviously)
I am chasing education for all too.
try looking at the costings properly. not what the LA claims your dd's SN school place costs, but what it actually does cost once all the porfessional's time, running costs etc are factored in. there is little difference.
I want every child to have the chance at an education which enables them to learn to the best of their abilities (whether in an ABA school or not)
compare dd1's fees now with the shit TEACCH provision she was in- the provision that provides outreach and training to half the SN placements in the South East - and again, there is not much in it once all costs are factored in.
I do not know how you have the nerve ot suggest that you, arguing that your experience of TEACCH (which has been good, and as I said beofre, you are lucky in that) are somehow arguing more selflessly for better provision for all, whereas I am selfishly chasing gold standard provision for my dd and hang the rest. honestly.
I do not understand why you feel so hounded whenever this subject comes up.
there are more people posting here with crappy expereinces of TEACCH than there are who have had good ones. and, as I have said several times now, this is not the fault of TEACCH, but the way it is diluted and poorly delivered in most provisions in this country.
you are the lucky one here. you are the one who got a great place for your dd with little argument. you have not moved house, area and county several times just so that your child can hav a chance at what is supposed to be a given - a basic education which expects her to learn.
you are not the one who has been ignored, and thought of as delusional when you dare to suggest your child can talk/learn/count/read/be toilet trained/participate in class. it is not your child who was consigned to never talking, let alone reading or enjoying life at all on any level (they thought it was fine that dd1 switched off completely; she was virtually catatonic when there. her LA EP report states that in 3 hours, her expression did not change at all, her gaze barely lifted formthe floor - and this was somethign I was supposed to accept as "normal" for school - I was supposed to accept she woudl spend the next 12 years of school doing this).
the LA wanted to send her on to the follow on school form her ASD pre-school. the whole lot of them wer eready to write her off as totally incapable of learning, at the age of 4.
that is what I fight against.
and I have fought against it for more than just my child.
btw, the education package my child receives is "just" a place at a school. that is all. her statement says nothing else - no specification or quantification. no outside SALT, OT. nothing. no music teaching, no sensory provision. it is all provided by her school. which in turn, is "just" a school set up and run by a mum. with no formal training. with 3 tutors who all started out with no formal training. it is hand to mouth and barely scraping by. and we all (the tutors, and the parents) spend hours of our time either doign up the school/the garden/researching the next educational move. it is not the fantasy ideal school you think it is.
all of the children there (there are 3 currently, but there have been children previosuly who have moved on)have far exceeded the expectations of the LA and previous schools. all done with no formal experience in education, and virtually nothign by way of buildings.
lastly, I cannot even begin to imagine what you mean by "DD1 would learn 'more' if she were exposed to an intense, perfectly tailored, highly scrutinised curriculum. Could she learn 'better'? Mmm...not so sure. I think she needs the slack to allow her brain to catch up."
dd1 has learnign difficulties. I do not know where she will end up eventually. we are very much one day at a time. if you are implying that ABA is pressured, with no space given for the child to just "be", then you are very much mistaken. but then you have been speaking from a mistaken pov where ABA is concerned all along.