I have no investment in any particular method of teaching. I am happy to follow suggestions, until they are proven not to work.
Example:
LD nurse wanted to try 'quiet time' DD1, sitting her on a step for 30 secs. I said 'she'll just treat it as a game, and you won't keep her there'.
LD nurse said 'stay with her'. I do. It's a game.
LD nurse changes mind, and says '2 minutes' and starts doing it for me
. Behaviour escalates, week by week, each time he visits.
LD nurse decides it has become a game
LD nurse now says 'take to quiet step, say 'quiet time' and remove immediately, redirecting to activity, so that she knows you have always won'. BARKING.
My view: setting the stage for a clear behavioural transaction.
Step 1:
I hit my sister.
Step 2:
I walk to a step, sit on it, then get up.
Step 3:
I get to do something nice.
Step 4:
I hit my sister........
Trouble is, I don't have an alternative either. I am on my own (DH at work) with 3 children under 6. I can't keep DD1 safe as well as keeping DDs 2&3 safe.
If she starts getting in 'the zone', I have to choose between protecting the other children, or comforting them. If i choose protecting, it gives DD1 the exclusive attention she wanted.
If I choose comforting the other children, DD1 is free to hit and pinch and kick.
I cannot safely take her to her bedroom (slightly low muscle tone, drops to the floor, kicks and pinches as you try to carry her, and throws herself around), and other professionals have advised that the bedroom should be seen as a nice place, not a punishment zone.
I have a lounge, hallway strip and tiny kitchen. There is no safe place to 'exclude' DD1, and nowhere to take the other children to safety.
DD1 is so self-directed, that actually, any method only works if she wanted it to anyway. Reward chart...meh. Treasure box for good behaviour...well if she wants it, fair enough, but majority of the time, couldn't care less. Taking toys away, doesn't care anyway.
I digress, but simply put, I do not 'believe' in TEACCH, as much as I don't 'believe' in ABA as a branded phenomenon. ABA should be just common sense stuff, isn't it? Common sense says you work out why someone does something, tackle that, then reinforce desired behaviour.
I am just saying don't throw out the baby with the bath water. There is a place for the concept of TEACCH. We cope with the fact that physically disabled children need a different environment, why is it so hard to accept that neurologically children do too?