DS1 has been at my mums for the entire school holidays, His choice.
He came back Monday just gone and within 5 minutes was his usual self.
Prior to the holidays he shredded his laces in his school shoes and demanded I
went and got him new shoes, I didn't I bought him new laces.There was nothing wrong with them and still isn't.
He is now threatening to cut them up unless I buy him new ones before Tuesday.
He refused to go to school the 2 days this week he should have because I wouldn't
buy him new shoes. I ended up telling the school the real reason for his absense rather than
covering him.
This morning he got up and wanted to control the TV Now, I wanted and did watch the royal wedding.
His way of dealing with this was shouting, screaming and tantruming.
I reacted by following out my threat from yesterday, that if he did not change his attitude I would
a- get the internet barred on his mobile
b- empty his room
c- stop him going fishing on Sunday.
He has 2 days to redeem himself to go fishing on Sunday.
I have barred the internet and have also took his tv, dvd, ps2 and ds away.
He has continued to shout etc and trashed his room.
Ok I know he has aspergers, BUT should I have not done this and let him continue to be
rude or was I right in what I have done and the shoe issue?
I should add that mum said at hers although not on the same scale she had to deal with a few
strops from him.