Hi everyone,
I need your advice on above matter.
I have a 14 years old autistic daughter with very violent behaviour.
i have been going through very difficult times with her for many years.
She started to hit and hurt the people over 3 years ago.i was also hit many times in past. i have a report where her doctor witnessed her hitting me while we were there.
The previous school excluded her permanently when many of the staff members were hit by her and taken to accedent and emergency.
I requsted social services in past to give me some respite, i was offered only 9 hrs but later i was told they can't find a suitable staff to take her out.
after one and half years i asked them to close her file.
they however mentioned in her core assessment the violent behaviour and hurting me and other people.
on the basis of all these reports she was givin a boarding school with monday to friday last year in september.
she is much better in her current school but became very violent at home and started to hit her two baby brothers age 2 and 1.
she runs after the babies and creams sky high, shouts, kicks on furniture, they are very scared.my 2 yrs old son nearly lost his eye 2 weeks ago when she pushed him on a glass table.She creams baby go away, she also has made no go areas in the house where they can't entre.it has become impossible to keep them apart.the situation is very very dangerous.
i contacted the LEA to provide her a school with full time boarding ficility.
i was told that LEA will continue giving her same school and i should seek help from Social services regarding rest of problems with my daughter.
I called SS to do an assessment, give her a school with 52 weeks boarding and arrange somewhere where she could stay as it has become impossible to keep her at home due to very aggressive and dangerous behavior towards babies.
I was told by Social worker they can't take or arrage anywhere to take her, there is no such thing we do to take children from their parents home. when i told them about the risks to babies lives, social worker said" even normal children hit other children".
i was shocked as the kids are too small, she is not normal child and and hitting is not normal.
I was very emotional and said" if you do not help me and provide her accomodation, i am going to abondon her and leave the country with my 2 babies to save them from their sister.I was never serious and only wanted them to arrange somewherefor her to stay.
the social worker left and later phoned me,I have started section 47 inquiry of child protection act against you as you said you were going to leave your daughter behind and fly away from the country, she also said she will involve, professionals, her teacher and police.
I have been ttold about section 20 of the child act 1989 where if you can't cope with a child you can volentarily give them to authority.
in this case rather than providing me any help and assesstant i am being prosecuted.
i have not commited any crime but being punished only why i asked SS to help me out with my violent child.
Ok.. i need to know what should i do in this situation, what would be the outcome of this section 47 inquiry?
will appreciate your kind advice