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Where is the thread its getting late?..... Friday Night too tired for.....

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woolyxmastree · 10/12/2010 18:05

Evening all! Grin

Its is Friday isnt it?...Confused

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purplepidjbauble · 10/12/2010 21:37

I was the opposite. Adored animals as a child but parents always had reasons why I couldn't have a pet. I had 2 goldfish, which got to big for their tank and are still, apparently, in my Gran's pond 20 years later...

Anyway, mum always told me that when I was 18 and had a home of my own, I could do as I damned well pleased. So I damned well did.

Fanjo, if you're anywhere near me I'm happy to bring Mango to visit once his CRB* check comes through...

*Cat's Random Biscuit

TheArsenicCupCake · 10/12/2010 21:43

< flumps on sofa in corner.. Does a shattered wave at all>

the week started of not so good .. Got sort of progressivly better.. But I never want to write a letter or make a phone call again..

I have been explaining all week.. I am not the mummy from hell.. But I blooming well will be if things aren't sorted..
Get things okayish.. And then donkey ex starts up.. I didn't rise to his request of him wanting me to email my thoughts to him.. ( his idea of starting an arguement and slating me)..

( my general thought is .. Go away.. Leave me alone... Omg you can tell some whoppers... And how about actually paying some CSA? And stop screwing things up for ds2.. Oh and grow a pair!)

< big slug of wine>

PolarEyes · 10/12/2010 21:57

hello all

good week/bad week here.

Good in that DS1 took part in nativity play and dutifully stood up and sat down. Didn't sing but wasn't disruptive as his CT assumed he would be.

Bad week posted about in primary www.mumsnet.com/Talk/primary/1102530-Does-complaining-ever-really-achieve-anything

need a beer!

woolyxmastree · 10/12/2010 22:01

Oh dear arsenic, you are def not a mummy from hell, you are a great mummy! Wine therapy should help...i suggest more...Im a wine therapist!

Purple my mum told us the same when our goldfish died moved to the neighbours pond. :)

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TheArsenicCupCake · 10/12/2010 22:11

Wine is helping so much I won't be long before I hit snooze time :)

tiredmummyneedswineandsleep · 10/12/2010 22:24

too tired to do anything. have wine in fridge untouched that i was saving for tonight. drifted off on the sofa after work and ds was watching cbeebies awoke to a half naked and red ds who had found a marker pen and coloured himself in with and a game box and game cards! thank god it was washable!

bigcar · 10/12/2010 22:27

arsenic, that sounds rough, hope you get a chance to put your feet up, at least for 5 minutes.

loving the fish stories Xmas Grin Our garden is a bit of a cats graveyard, I pity the future owners that find each cat in their favourite spot in the garden Xmas Hmm Xmas Grin we now live in the house I grew up in, just in case anyone was wondering!

mariagoretti · 10/12/2010 22:30

Evening ladies (and any dads that might be about). To tired to... sort out house / washing / go back up to ds who is still awake. You all look knackered as well this week. I would say roll on the holidays but we might change our minds when they actually start Xmas Wink

Am about to look at cerebra guide and make a start on dla form, as DH is away tonight. Have finally got to grips with deciding to try & claim so have appointment with support worker on Tuesday. The deadline will hopefully help but I'd really appreciate a mumsnet SN kick up the a**e any time you see me on line cos I expect my limited enthusiasm will flag shortly.

moosemama · 10/12/2010 22:37

Evening folks

I always seem to arrive late don't I.

Sorry, I haven't ready very much, just skimmed.

Arsenic, sorry you have had such a bad week and your dh is still being an A class pita with knobs on. Hope the wine is hitting the spot.

Mixed week here, dd and myself have been quite poorly with a humdinging coldey fluey bug (which dh has now caught just in time to languish on the sofa all weekend). This resulted in my making a total prat of myself by crying all over ds1's teacher when asking about the SISS observation report. What with being poorly and us finding out more and more about ds's problems, I've been a bit of an emotional wreck this week. Blush

That said, ds1 had a really good session with his EP after a couple of really bad ones and also completed his WISC IV which we are now awaiting the results of.

We had feedback from the head of the CLD Inclusion Team who observed him a couple of weeks ago and she pretty much backed up everything the EP and ourselves have said and also said they are going to offer an unconditional package of ASD training to all teachers involved with ds. So that's all looking good.

Ds himself has been typically stressed, spinny/ticcy/stimmy as is the way with this time of the year and has also been exceptionally short tempered and extremely difficult to live with. Cue lots of fights and to my shame shouty Mummy moments.

Unfortunately, his EP was also with him when he had quite a big absence. We aren't sure whether or not it was a petit mal or a shutdow/zone-out caused by sensory stuff (noise of the nativity rehearsals in the next room). The EP is going to type it up as it happened for us to take along with us to his Paed appointment in January. Not sure how I feel about this one really, validated in the sense that its the first time someone outside of our immediate family has seen it happen, but also scared about what that means.

Another sad thing is that our little old dog, who had rallied after we expected to lose her a few weeks back, has taken another turn for the worst and the vet told us tonight that we need to book THE appointment. We have been having regular appointments 10 days apart with her and she said not to book the next one iyswim. Sad

On a more positive note. Ds2 was the comical star of his nativity and got Star of the Week for his efforts. We were inundated with parents and teachers approaching us in the playground afterwards to tell us how good he was. So that was a lovely end to the week.

bigcar · 10/12/2010 22:37

maria, I can't wait for the holidays, I'm getting to the stage that just thinking about dd3s school stresses me. My tip for dla forms is photocopy them before you send it off and have a few bottles of wine ready for when it's done. Although I am taking the opposite approach at present and drinking the wine first as an excuse to ignore it just a little longer!

woolyxmastree · 10/12/2010 22:44

Wine therapy rules! :)

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bigcar · 10/12/2010 23:03

at least the cat doesn't drink wine, she's always got her nose in my cup of tea Xmas Hmm

Lougle · 10/12/2010 23:37

Hi Ladies, I know it is late, but if anyone could answer This thread I know the OP is desparate for advice. Very sad & worrying time for her Smile

Lougle · 10/12/2010 23:38

Oh dear. That Smile was to you ladies, not about the worrying time the lovely OP is having Blush

mariagoretti · 11/12/2010 00:44

aaah, i've just done the walking outdoors section. I had thought ds was probably not entitled... it looks so bad on paper that I can't face doing the next section Sad

I'll have a look at the thread above & another cup of tea i think.

signandsingcarols · 11/12/2010 08:17

Hi all, late as ever, (or early, if you see what I mean.) spent last night drinking mulled wine and planning how to sign the carol service, (well told dh was planning, really it was 80% gossip and laugh and 20% signs Xmas Wink )

star hols sound lovely....

purple lol at cat crimes... Xmas Grin

my cat, used to enjoy tormenting the dog, if there was a door opened back against the wall she would sneak behind it, tip toe up to the hinge end, and wait for the dog, when he walked past she would shoot a paw out through the gap at the hinges, poke him, and pull the paw back, he would then spin around like he was saying ' what? what???!' and she would be nowhere to be seen,

though I am sure I heard little furry laughter... she was a minx! Xmas Grin

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