Well I may as well just give up

[TheArsenicCupCake]

Meeting with school went okay ..Actually it went pretty well.

However.. Ex pils have written to the school and are having a meeting with the school this week... I think they are doing it on exdh's written permission to step in for him.

They have written and interfered with every single agency or proffessional that have had anything to do with ds2 .. They do not hold parental responsibility.. But yet they seem to just roll on in and do what they want.
School have said they will not take away support and provision for ds..but why should they even talk about my ds and his education.. Why should they be allowed to go into a meeting and gain information about him?
And why should they get the chance to try and scupper the help that ds needs?

But.. You know I give up.. I can't seem to stop them..No matter what I do..

So I just bloody give up..

Alter ego has been deleted.

What makes me think that you hate teachers? Your generalisations on the mainstream teachers of SN kids thread.

I get that you have had bad experiences. But I still would like to know what your agenda is, what with the TES postings too.

Like many other parents of children with Special Needs I feel that some teachers in Main Stream schools do not know enough about many SEN conditions.

I agree. Some.

Like many other parents of children with Special Needs I feel that some teachers in Main Stream schools do not know enough about many SEN conditions.

Wow - an Einstein momment.

Why do you post crap?

Why do you advise calling in SS at the drop of a hat in totally inappropraite contexts?

Why do you post one-liners that have absolutely nothing to do with the subject under discussion?

It's irraitating and unnecessary.

we welcome everyone onto this board and treat them all with respect whether they have SN children or are just curious / browsers. But i seriously striggling to do that with you Lucinda.

You've broken a trust and were too stupid to even realise that.

it's like having some alien from Mars visit - mumble a few dijointed sentences and bugger off again.

I can only repeat what Giveme asked -

What is your agenda?

I have only used this site for a few months and I personally won't bother with Lucinda's input as it comes across useless, negative and so on. I have personally noticed with past posts that have been written on my thread. Everybody else I have read have been more then helpful and gave sound advice. Out of order springs to mind.

I cannot recall advising or suggesting calling in SS at the drop of a hat. I have a low opinion of SS.

All I can say is that all the above I agree with, that is how you come across many of times.

Lucinda posted on SN:

Social services should be so organised to be able to help and support families. Why does no one want their help?
Would you prefer to get help from a social worker of your own age or would you prefer a male social worker?

I took that to mean you were in favour of their intervention.

Sorry - must have misread it.

It p....s me off "lucinda" that parents on here come on here because we need to share our problems/concerns with other like minded people.

You need to butt out, you seriously should not be posting in a massively public place like the TES about someone elses issues..

I speak to other parents in my region who have children with ASD. Many SS departments do not recognise ASD as a disability, and as a result do not offer support to families with ASD children. Worse than that they can be rude and cruel when a parent asks for help,

Yes they can. That's why they're a resource of last resort.

Does your own DD have ASD or some other condition? Happy if you'd rather not answer that.

You may assume that she has got ASD plus other things.

Okay guys.. I think it may be time to call it quits tbh.. Or move to another thread and let this one work it's way down ( is that too bossy?)

i'll take it that LC was trying to help.. However it's a bit bad firm to post on another forum, which could be conected to the people I am having issues with.. Etc

however I am sure that it will be fish n chip wrappers in a very short while .. And I'm too tired and worn down to worry about it.. Also I am aware that this is an open forum and is searchable even if not in active on thus site.

Can we let this die please .. I don't want anyone upset.. :)