Stark, I do agree with you (ad you know) particulalry this bit
'That's not the issue though is it? As a truth it is fine, and very nearly acceptable. What isn't acceptable is selling the standard package AS IF it is designed specifically to meet the needs of an individual.'
You have been treated appallingly, no doubt about that.
I do sometimes like to lob in opposing view, as I do to myself to keep myself objective, as much as possible.
(In same vein, have just bought a book in town on a political stance i disagree with wholeheartedly, in order to try and see other view.)
Peasant, massive issue is no real parent engagement-helping parents to help their kids.
I got caut in trap of thinknig 'professionals' knew what they were doing. Biggest mistake of my life. But I think if it doesn't sound pompous, I have been able to take the reins as I understand this field. I have been in it for 15 years.
I understand language and now I have my MSc in ABA, I understand how to teach anything. I clearly remember the moment I sat in a lacture thaetre and it struck me like a thunderbolt that this stuff I was learning would not only help with my work but with my own child.
From that day on I took complete control (happily have lEA completely on board but not without going throguh sherr hell first) and all is roaring ahead full blast.
I wake up every day excited about every child I work with, including of course my own. They cna learn so fast. The sky is the limit it really is!
Debs, I don't know. I don't believe in labels really. It is what many behaviourist describe as an 'explanatory fiction'. In other words, difficulties in one area are given a label and are then a condition.
So, issues with reading mean you are 'dyslexic', those with co-ordination mean you are 'dyspraxic'. One has 'processing issues' and so on and so on.
It is dangerous as it lays blame on child as opposed to teaching practices.
One of my heros, Michale Maloney (google him) says
'If the child hasn't learnt, the teacher hasn't taught'. That's all you need to know.
Give Elklan a go. You will know after it what diference it makes. Even if nothing, you will learn useful things and make good contacts.
I don't care if anyone is 'ASD' or whateve,r I just care about helping them leanr what they need to know. And, what is good for kids with ASD is good for any kid.