Greeting All
Just wanted to impart my limited knowledge
I have 2 DD's - 1st born with Down's & 2nd with ADHD
Have a friend who's DS's downs wasn't detected till he was 5+ yrs ... he has no physical characteristics at all (such a stunner)
Another friend has DS with Mosaic Down's (he only has 15% of his cells affected by the additional no 21 chromosome - the qty of affected cells can't be linked to IQ etc. as her DS is far less advanced than many kids I know
BTW, my DD is nearly 16yrs (I was 17yrs when pregnant)
All the characteristics that have been listed before are possible - BUT it is not a requirement of Down's to have any or all - my DD does have the 'typical' Down's apperance, but not the central crease on hands &/or feet
Interestingly, I know of a family where the mother had twins - boy & girl, girl born with Down's, boy not affected at all - son has the central palm crease as does the mum - DD doesn't have it though!
have a look at \link {http://www.downs-syndrome.org.uk/DSA_Faqs.aspx} where you can find the British Down Syndrom Assc FAQ page - there are many photo's too, so you can see for yourself any physical characteristics common to Downs and your DS.
Taking one day at a time is good.
When my DD was born, I received a poem from my beloved sis:
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change...change the things I can...and the wisdom to know the difference.
Didn't get it then, but I understand that message now - she had a wise head on young shoulders
God bless you and keep you all safe hun, ttfn