I'm wondering whether to apply for an EHCP for my (diagnosed) autistic DS in Year 5, or if we'd have no hope of getting one? I'm especially concerned about him coping in secondary school. He has had barely any SEN support in school because he is so academically able and quietly works well. However, he can be miserable socially as he has extreme social anxiety and shyness, and difficultly knowing how to go about making friends. He does want friends and isn't happy being alone so much. He will play with others in a group if they invite him but will be too scared to go up to other kids to ask if he can join in. Social difficulties do come up in the classroom too, eg. if he works in pairs and his partner is wrong factually about the learning, DS is too shy to say this is incorrect and to explain the correct answer. He is also too shy to ask any teacher for anything he needs, or even to put his hand up if he knows an answer. I know I can speak to school about supporting him, and I do this, but my question is particularly about EHCP with a view to starting secondary school. Thanks