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At breaking point with toddlers sleep.

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YellowEllis · 18/10/2020 04:22

15 month old has always been a pretty good sleeper, 7.30-6.30/6 everyday for a long time. For the past 2 months, very different story. He goes to bed at 7.30, wakes up at 2.30, 4.30, 5.30 and then that's it. He stands up in his cot and screams, not cries, screams, like a shrill throaty scream. He screams so hard he ends up sounding like he's lost his voice. It's so upsetting. He cut all his first molars around the same time this started 2 months ago, so we assumed things would settle down but they are now fully through and all other signs of teething have stopped and he's still doing it. Sometimes if we leave him to cry for 10 mins he'll fall back asleep but sometimes nope. I've been up with him since 2.30 and everytime I calm him down he starts screaming the second I put him down.

We've always made sure he self settled, we put him down at night and for his naps awake. He is fine at those times.

He has a nap at around 9.30 for 1.5/2 hours.
Sometimes he has a mini nap at 4-4.45 but not always.
We've tried pushing bed time earlier, later, we've tried letting him nap in the afternoon, keeping him awake. I'm at my wits end.

DH has now got in the habit of bringing him into the spare room and sleeping in bed with him this last week just so we can all get some sleep but I just know deep down it's making it worse.

Please can anybody offer any advice I really can't keep doing this forever

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YellowEllis · 20/10/2020 14:16

Same routine again yesterday and he woke up at 8am today! First time EVER! He's just stirring now from his afternoon nap - so far so good. Can't believe it was this simple. Thanks so much I feel like a new women Smile

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Indecisivelurcher · 20/10/2020 16:26

Top job!!!

YellowEllis · 23/10/2020 06:47

2 days on the trot back waking up at 5.45 screaming and not going back down. It was good while it lasted..

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Indecisivelurcher · 23/10/2020 07:02

5:45 ain't awful 😉 Mine are up at 6:15 legit morning in this house, 3yo often awake in bed singing to himself from 5:30/6.

YellowEllis · 24/10/2020 09:14

1am-4am was spent with him inconsolable last night. Nothing would calm him down! TV, milk, cuddles, calpol.. I even got so desperate around 3am I tried to bath him and that didn't calm him down either. He finally passed out from the sheer volume of crying and honestly got into bed and cried myself feeling like a total failure.

This morning got him up and he's got a bloody canine coming through. He didn't even cry this much with his molars! Atleast there's a reason for it I guess. He's knackered this morning and is being really cuddly on the sofa, I've woken up ill, or just exhausted. And the clocks go back tonight so it'll be even worse Brew

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Indecisivelurcher · 25/10/2020 17:37

Sending coffee @YellowEllis Didn't want to leave your thread just hanging like that. When my ds was 14m he would be awake for a few hours on the middle of the night every night, sometimes happy, sometimes upset. I ended up doing controlled crying. Think he wanted to be asleep really.

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