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3 months old. Wakes every 2 hours for a feed. Is it too early to sleep train?

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AutumnJames270120 · 14/04/2020 11:16

Hi Mums,

I am a first-time mum. My three-month-old (DD) is amazing at going to sleep by herself. We have a great bedtime routine that we start at 7pm each night:

  • bath, bottle, bed.
  • night time projector
  • white noise

DD will fall asleep quickly once I lay her down. Literally within minutes and no crying at all. I understand this is great for a baby of her age.

The only problem is that she will wake every 1-2 hours screaming crying. It has been this way since birth. Sometimes she will sleep no longer than 45 minutes.

Every time she wakes up, I have been feeding her and putting her back down to sleep. She will not re-settle with just her dummy/pacifier. Once fed, she will then go back to sleep within 15-20 minutes once laid down.

It is rather exhausting, I am currently going downstairs to make bottles 5-7 times a night until she wakes up properly at around 7am. I understand I am probably doing this wrong as I am rewarding her with a bottle every time she wakes up.

I wanted some advice around this area. Is it too early to start sleep training? Falling asleep independently isn't the problem, as beforementioned. Our only issue is her staying asleep.

I must note that she currently sleeps in a snuzpod, next to our bed. We are in the same room. If I wanted to start sleep training, would I need to move her into her own room so that my presence is not stimulating her? My partner works and is up at 5am each day - he is truly exhausted too.

Any advice would be much appreciated. I do not have a mother to ask for advice. I am currently spending twelve hours from 7pm-7am waking up and making bottles every two hours.

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GenevaMaybe · 14/04/2020 16:35

This is snacking behaviour which yes is natural but is also completely exhausting as no one gets any real sleep.
You can start by trying to space out the day time bottles, how many of those is she having and at what times?

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