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Why is she waking at 5.30 ! AArgh !

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Tillysmummy · 14/08/2002 16:16

Dd has always been variable with her wake up times. She goes down like clockwork between 7 and 7.30 every evening. I have tried to work out patterns of if her night sleep is related to day sleep and therefore cut out naps after 3pm etc and am trying to encourage her to have a long sleep 10-12 etc with no sleep in the afternoon to see if it makes any difference. It doesn't seem to although now I think about it maybe she has slept better with no afternoon sleep.

She is 11 months old and went through a good phase of waking at 6.30, sometimes 7 and rarely 7.30 but now has gone back to waking at 5.30.

Because she hasn't been well I don't like to leave her to cry and am also actually thinking that it is probably because she has been napping in the afternoon say 2-3 or 1-2 because she hasn't been well and sleep has been everywhere.

Perhaps I should try to go back to putting her to sleep at 10 ish ? It's so difficult to know because when she wakes up so early she really wants to sleep by about 9am so how do i break the cycle ?

Any advice would be much appreciated. She has just cut two molars and whenever she's ill everything gets disrupted but I wonder if it will go back to normal etc etc.

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whellid · 23/09/2002 09:14

I'd just like to echo everyone elses comments Pupuce - thanks for the advice. It was very timely, as I had done something similar before, but needed a reminder !

After posting last week thinking it was teething that was waking ds up at 4 I think I was wrong ! and not for the first time !!

He seems to wake up when he starts banging his head at the top of the cot - so although I can now confidently settle him again !! I need to deal with the cause, to stop him doing it. I tuck him in as tightly as I can and have rolled a sheet up and tucked it in at the top of the cot but it doesn't seem to work. Would a sleeping bag help with this ?

I'm away for 4 days soon with work, and MIL is coming to stay with ds and dh so I'd love to get it sorted before then.

Girly · 23/09/2002 10:04

See what you lot have started!!! My ds (19 wks) has been reading this thread and has decided its a good idea to wake between 4.30 and 5.30am not for milk just for a chat and/or moan! Left him to it this morning (after a quick check and kiss) and he went back to sleep at 6ish, then lo and behold dd (3) wakes up at 6.30 wanting to play lets hide!!! Why do we do it, remind me someone!

pupuce · 23/09/2002 11:03

Whellid...you do not say how old your baby is... but a sleeping bag is IMO always a good investment!

sobernow · 23/09/2002 11:59

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whellid · 23/09/2002 11:59

Oops ! Ds is 8.5 months old, and has always slept really well, being a 7 to 7 baby (a strong hint of GF in his life!).

He's starting to drop back on the morning nap, and has never been great for more than an hour at lunch time. The amount of sleep he has in a day doesn't seem to determine whether he wakes at night at the top of the cot, so I don't think it's to do with being more restless.

A longer cot may help!!

bayleaf · 23/09/2002 12:27

Pupuce - you can quote me saying that your advice is always excellent, well thought out and practical - (without being over 'directive' - ANYTIME!!
When will we get to know your site address???

And yes I second the 'buy a sleeping bag' suggestion - was one of the EXCELLENT pieces of GF advice that I didn't take up till later ( as I've said before I stared off very cynical but have taken on more and more of her ideas as time's has gone on and as she has been proved 'right' ( for my dd!) everytime...

bayleaf · 23/09/2002 12:28

Not sure where the wink came from - unintentional!!!

pupuce · 23/09/2002 14:19

Thank you for the green lights. I will use excerpts. The other references are from people I have actually been doulaying...
The website is almost ready... a few more touches and will be set

ionesmum · 23/09/2002 22:31

Am totally exhausted and have a thumping head. Dd woke at 1.30 until 2.30, then again at 4.30 until 5.30, then again at seven. I got her off to sleep on the bed as we normally get up between 8.30 and 9 .. and the next thing I knew it was 10 o'clock and we had a mad rush to get to the doctor's! Her ears are fine (I've posted about this elsewhere) and she doesn't cry, she just plays! It could be teething, or she could have a cold, or she could just be waking up. I really, really need more than a couple of hour's unbroken sleep.

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